I;m 15teen and me and my boyfriend hade unported sex I have not hade my pd for a mount and a half I've been gaining wight and if I tell my mom I would be sent to milltery school and my dad would kill me
If the guy I'm with nows he woundent want the baby but I would but I don't want to be a teen mom sos sobody save me I don't now what to do I'm so scard sorry about my righting

What is it you need to know? If you are pregnant it is not just going to go away and you will have to address the pregnancy in some fashion in accordance with your finances and religious beliefs.

Step #1 is to find out definitely if you are or are not pregnant.

What country are you in?

Young lady,

Your ability to speak and write correctly is the very least of your problems. You do need to work on them, but all of that is immaterial to your child.

You are 15, and you are a teen Mom. There is no discussion there.

That your parent's will be furious, is probably the least you have to worry about.

No military school will take a pregnant teenager. They are not equipped to care for you.

No one is going to reach out of the sky and save you. You and your boyfriend did this. No one else.

People may offer you advice and suggest things for you to think about, but you have to sort through them and find what's best for you and your child.

You boyfriend is not free either. He now has a child that he has to step-up and care for. Part of what you have to do is make him, if he does not want to.

Your parents will know as well as his parents, not to mention the whole wide area of your world.

On the positive side, you are carrying within you a gift like no other. This child will drive you batty and then turn his/her head and smile and you will be struggling not to cry with happiness.

Where to begin, I suggest getting to a doctor and making sure that you are pregnant.

From there you and your boyfriend need to sit and plan how the both of you are going to tell your parents.

You life has just changed forever and you now have a rough road ahead of you, particularly if your boyfriend tries to escape his responsibilities.

First find out for sure whether you are pregnant or not. Then you will have to deal with the consequences either way.

If you are pregnant, you will have to face up to it, tell your parents, and grow up fast by taking care of yourself.

You will have some decisions to make, but since you feel you would keep your baby, you will see a doctor, start taking prenatal vitamins, make plans for how you are going to finish school and raise your child. Your boyfriend will be responsible for helping out, at the very least financially.

If you aren't pregnant, count your blessings and stop having sex. You are too young and you are not in any way able to take on the responsibility. DO NOT let your boyfriend talk you into continuing if he tries to. If he dumps you because you won't have sex with him, fantastic! Again you would be able to count your blessings that you found out what he is really like.

I truly hope you are not pregnant and that you learn a very valuable lesson with this scare.

Great news, you can't go to military school pregnant, so they will not send you. And murder is illegal and they will not kill you. Will they yell and loss their temper and stomp around the house, most likely for a few days or even longer.

Will your entire future be changed for ever, yes.

But doing nothing will not make it go away and you need to find out what is happening.