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tinyazn
Sep 28, 2010, 08:28 PM
He never texts me to start. But he can never tell me face to face. He always makes me smile, and he always smiles around me.

Somedays he's really flirty and cute. and some days, he's so freakin-= I just want to slap him sometiimes -____--"
He knows I like him., and i don't know. That ruined our friendship. Obviously.

Anyways., I don't know what's going on.
I was talking to him today. And in class, he was like there's a reason why i don't text you. But he wont tell me the reason in person. I don't know why. everything has to be over text. it's stupid.

Anyways. I don't know if he likes me or not. I think he was getting mad when my guy friend in the class i have with him, was major flirting with me. I blushed a lot cause it was so sweet and adorable. He was all like tickling me and touching my face and calling me beautiful, it was sweet. But the guy that was flirting with me today, was my other guy friend, not the guy that I like. Though I wouldn't mind liking him ;) . The guy I like seemed kinda mad or jealous, or I don't even know. He's so confusing >_<
And I was like, over text, why don't you text me. And he said cause he hates me -____-"
and then I was like.. I'mma cry, and he's like hahahah. I was like.. you're so mean.. /: . I know he's joking, cause he would have ignored me . And he stopped texting me. -____-. He needs to make up his mind. If he doesn't like me, then he shouldn't be flirting with me in the first place. WHAT IS HE DOING.
But I still want to work things out with the guy I like. He was such a sweetheart before I was on my *****y rant. I don't know what happened. It's horrible.

KoolAide187
Oct 15, 2010, 11:04 PM
Sounds like he is just playing games with you. So first off you're the girl you need to be playing games back with him. Some people say games are hurtful but all in how you do them. You sound like you're in high school still so I am going to say this. Nothing in high school is that serious. Not trying to knock on your feelings or age or anything but 9/10 times high school relationships don't work out. Now if you want this boy to talk to you. Then you need to mess with his feelings. You said he already knows you like him so that point is already out there. Now it's times to take away from him. What you could try to do is flirt with the guy in class you don't like as much and try to make the boy you like jealous. When he texts you... for the first I'd say 2 texts ignore him. When he says why aren't you talking to me you should say because I am tired of texting you. If you want to talk to me you need to walk up and talk to my face or even call me better yet. That way you can also hint at wanting him to ask you out. Or better yet... guys are easy pushovers in high school. You could tell him you won't talk to him anymore unless he asks you out. I bet he does... if you have the guts to do that. And even if he doesn't ask you out there is that other guy you said you wouldn't mind dating either. Either way you have to switch things from the norm to different just like he is doing to you. I hope some of this advice helps. Let me know how things go. ;)

tinyazn
Oct 16, 2010, 11:55 AM
Haha that's genius:) I think that will work ;) And yeah, what you said at the beginning, I heard that too, so I don't mind you sayng that to be honest. And your good, I am in high school:)

beachloverjohn
Oct 16, 2010, 06:51 PM
I guess it is never to soon for women to learn how to drive guys crazy. Girls are so much better at these games then boys, but for me, I think game playing should only be played when everyone knows the rules. Personally, I think playing these type of head games is a form of manipulating someone. Unfortunately, it is effective.

tinyazn
Oct 17, 2010, 04:46 PM
Eh I don't think it's going to work very well, I have a tendency to fall guilty for bitty things, but I always want a clear answer :) and if this is the only way to find out, then I guess I'll give it a try:)

beachloverjohn
Oct 17, 2010, 09:06 PM
Well go ahead, give it a try. When I was in school, I was usually the guy that girls used to make someone else jealous. I guess you could say I was a "boy toy". But you know if it wasn't for the fact that girls used me because I was such a sap, I wouldn't have had any dates at all. So I guess everybody uses everybody for one reason or another.

But I will say this tinyazn, you do make school sound like fun.

tinyazn
Oct 21, 2010, 08:00 PM
Yeah I guess that's true, there's never a person that goes unused, and thanks! (: I try to live it uhhp, even though high school is just going to be like oh, that one time, you knoww ? :) and naah, I decided not to try it, haha(:

tinyazn
Oct 22, 2010, 07:03 PM
There's this one guy that I like ,I met him like a month ago, and well, long story short, we became friends, he knew I liked him, I ****ed things uhp, but earned his trust back, and then he went to juvy fomr something. And I thought he moved, was heartbroken, and now he might be going to jail for 2 years ): .
And I stilll can't get it out of me ! LIke I almost cried just by looking at him, and he won't give me hugs or anything, he's not that type of guy, he's sweet though, and today he was depressed and sad, and it made me sad, and he won't tell me the day he is going to court or the day he is probably most likely getting thrown back in jail ): . And I don't know what to do ): .
It's amazing how much trust I earned back, I was a huge ***** to him, and now he forgives me, and the first person he told that he might be getting thrown back in jail was me ): .

I don't know what to do, my best friend was talking to me about that, and I just wanted to break down and cry when she told me on Monday, if he's at school, I should just throw myself to him, in a hug and just let it out and be like I'm going to miss you, when I knew she thought what I was thinking, My tears started falling out, and I just tried so so hard to laugh it off. It's horrible ): . She didn't see my cry, but I don't know ): . What should I do now ):

tinyazn
Oct 22, 2010, 07:05 PM
And, I'm being honest, she has a lot of problems at the moment, with getting over her ex and everything, and I sit there and listen and try to help her get over it.

But today, I told her that I'm almost crying over this boy that I like love that's going to jail. And she's just like I'm sorry. DUDE I know who blah blah is going out with blag blah It seems like she doesn't even care! *** . Man ): This is making me so sad ):

awayandalone
Oct 23, 2010, 04:23 AM
What help or advice are you looking for exactly? Convey more information.