Well I'm in the army I met a girl a few months ago.. she text me out of the blue asking what I was doing and that she was bored.. sence then I have been talking to her.. she has a Bf and he treats her like Sh** and never lets her hang out with her friends or pretty much leave her room he is in another state and still does this to her.. she tells me all the time about him.. I help her and a few times something happened to us that lead to a few things she got upset and felt bad and we didn't talk for a few days but then it went back to normal.. everyone that knows us thinks there is something between us but she says we are friends I treat her with the up most respect and I give her what she needs.. anything... and I'm always there when she is have a bad weekend or needs someone to vent to.. she tells me that she doesn't like me but she tells her friends that if she wasn't with him she would prob be with me.. so what should I do... should I just get over it and try and move on or should I keep with her because she really means a lot to me

You want the truth? Can you handle the truth? You are waisting your time on someone who doesn't think of you the same way you think of her. And she has a boyfriend. She is just using you. Don't be a sucker. She only wants you for someone to lean on. Unless you are willing to be strictly friends, then stop barking up the wrong tree.

She's already taken which means she's totally off-limits.

If you're looking for a romantic relationship you need to move on, because you aren't going to get one from her.

Try reading this guide for some insight: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/guidlines-what-do-do-if-person-like-already-relationship-463250.html

Bottom line, whatever you decide to do, be prepared for the consequences.

Forget what everyone else is saying. She has a boyfriend she obeys, and you just relief from boredom.


Talaniman Rule- leave girls with boyfriends alone, and don't hold your breathe waiting for them to fail.

Talaniman Rule - Don't miss other opportunities and options because your stuck on someone who is not as stuck on you, that’s just plain crazy.

Talaniman Rule - If she has a boyfriend, take the hint and leave her alone.

Talaniman Rule-If you can't handle the consequences, don't do the action.

Talaniman Rule - Never ever get to close to a person that has a committed partner in their lives.