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labeebcred
Sep 28, 2010, 09:48 AM
I might be going to prison for a little while like 3-5 yrs. Is my ol lady likely to stay down with me. She said she has done it before. She say she lovesme and want to be there for me. What's going to be the most liely outcome of our relationship

J_9
Sep 28, 2010, 09:55 AM
In all honesty, and this is coming from a woman... if you were to call me your "ol lady and to stay down with me" I'd be gone in a heartbeat. Dude, show some respect already.

Since this is your second gun felony, I hope you have no children.

Why should she stay? Aren't there better prospects out there? Someone who can make a decent, legal, living... Someone who respects her and doesn't call her their "ol lady."

We don't know her... we don't know whether she likes "bad boys" or losers. We can't predict the "liely outcome" of your relationship.

Cat1864
Sep 28, 2010, 10:16 AM
she said she has done it before. she say she lovesme and wanna be there for me.

How long have you been together? How upset is she that you messed up again? Are there any children involved?

Did she stay with you before or was she in another relationship where her 'partner' went to prison?

If she stayed with you before why wouldn't she now?

If she stayed with someone else, what finally broke them up?

I agree that 'ol lady' sounds like you are talking about your grandmother not your wife/girlfriend.

Enigma1999
Sep 28, 2010, 10:26 AM
I have to ask, you mentioned that she waited before, does this mean she waited for you or someone else?

Lets say the tables were turned, and it were her that was going to prison for 3-5 years, would you wait for her?

Do you think she should wait for you?

Do YOU honestly think it's fair if she did wait? 3-5 years is along time.

labeebcred
Sep 28, 2010, 10:52 AM
She's my wife and we haveno kids together, n the other person she waited on wasn't me.. he left her once he got out.

Enigma1999
Sep 28, 2010, 10:58 AM
shes my wife and we haveno kids together, n the other person she waited on wasnt me.. he left her once he got out.

So, back to my question... Would you wait for her if it she that went to prison?

Also, do you honestly think it's fair if she did wait?