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Helpmeplz16
Sep 28, 2010, 08:09 AM
So I'm 16 and I've just started this year's school.At first everything seemed normal but after one day I started to feel bored,stressed,depressed and couldn't find any point in living anymore. I don't have friends because Im not a very talktive person with strangers. I always wanted a friend, someone to be close to me and there when I need him but couldn't find. I know I'm young and I should talk to my parents about it but I did it and they didn't listen to me at all.I asked them to get me some medicines and they didn't really care. My looks is not awesome and I start losing will in eating. In the past 3 weeks I kept crying and searching for answers on internet but nothing could help me. I want advices on how to enjoy my life and why I should keep living. I lost my trust in God afew years ago because I grew in a non religious familly. I don't know what to do, Im afraid I'll try and suicide Please help me!
joypulv
Sep 28, 2010, 08:19 AM
Get yourself to the high school nurse ASAP and if not there, the guidance counselor, and say right off the bat that you don't feel like living anymore and that you are afraid you'll try suicide. You can even walk into the nearest house of worship, regardless of your beliefs or religion, and ask to talk. You aren't bored, you are severely depressed. Depression turns your body chemistry into ongoing depression after a while, so the sooner you see someone the better.
Helpmeplz16
Sep 28, 2010, 08:30 AM
I talked to my parents before. Told them about my depression and they were ashamed of themselves and told me it will pass and filled it up with lies. It's been 3weeks and its getting worse. Don't know how long I can take it anymore. When I'm talking with others or when Im at school I feel all right but when I come home everything goes upside down.
J_9
Sep 28, 2010, 08:35 AM
As has been mentioned, talk to the school nurse or counselor. Do you have a teacher you like? Talk to him/her.
joypulv
Sep 28, 2010, 09:14 AM
Parents can't always handle it. They feel like it's their fault but don't want to feel that way, so they get defiant or angry or just deny there's anything you can't snap out of. That's why you need help somewhere else. There are MANY people out there willing to help. If you have been thinking of any actual plans for ways to die, you might think about going in a hospital for a week or 2. Just walk to an ER if you are near a hospital. They don't keep people much longer than that these days, and there will be other people feeling the way you do to talk to, as well as doctors and other staff, and you'll be safe.
joypulv
Sep 28, 2010, 04:08 PM
Please answer back about what you plan to do, or have done since writing here...