fletchy8
Sep 26, 2010, 09:06 AM
Okay so my boyfriend and I dated for a solid 10 months and we were PERFECT. We spent every second together and he came to all of my games and everything and always wanted to spend the whole day together and stuff. We were eachother's firsts for everything and we were madly in love. He has told me he wants to marry me and everything.
Well he is a year older than me so he graduated last year and on the week of his graduation he started acting weird and not talking to me very often and I got mad at him and kept blowing up hs phone and stuff and not leaving him alone. Well eventually, we talked and decided that we needed a break but that we should be "talking" and not see other people. Well a little while into the break I found out that he kissed another girl on the night he graduated and I got mad and went to his house and freaked out and yelled at him and everything and we stopped all communication for 2 weeks. Well I missed hm so I texted him to meet up and exchange things and we met up and started talking again.
All summer he kept saying he wanted to date me again just not yet and that I had to wait. Well things kept going wrong and other people kept stepping in the way and we kept getting mad at each other and stopped talking. Well a week before he left for college (an hour away) he asked me to be his girlfriend again and we were back together. Well a week later I heard that he had messed around on me even more while we were dating the first time so I asked him about it and he said no that wasn't true it happened when we weren't together but "talking" I got so mad I didn't talk to him for 3 days and he came into town just to see me and was begging forgiveness. Well that night he suggested we take a month and don't talk at all and see how we feel about each other after that month. I thought it was a good idea until I freaked out and started blowing up his phone over and over. He asked me to homecoming so I needed info and he wouldn't ansewr! I was gettting desperate to talk to him so one day he came into town and we talked and he said that he just needs time and space to decde what he wants. Well that was a week ago and last night I went to visit him in college so we could party and we were talking about the whole thing and he got mad and told me I was being so annoying and that he never wants to hangout because all I ever do is cry and talk about our future and that he doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I felt bad and apologized. He is coming in town next weekend to get ready for homecoming and then the next weekend for homecoming itself.
I love him and I just want him to come back to me. Is it possible? How can I do it? He said that he still loves me but that he just doesn't know if he wants to give up college partying life for a girlfriend right now. HELP!
Well he is a year older than me so he graduated last year and on the week of his graduation he started acting weird and not talking to me very often and I got mad at him and kept blowing up hs phone and stuff and not leaving him alone. Well eventually, we talked and decided that we needed a break but that we should be "talking" and not see other people. Well a little while into the break I found out that he kissed another girl on the night he graduated and I got mad and went to his house and freaked out and yelled at him and everything and we stopped all communication for 2 weeks. Well I missed hm so I texted him to meet up and exchange things and we met up and started talking again.
All summer he kept saying he wanted to date me again just not yet and that I had to wait. Well things kept going wrong and other people kept stepping in the way and we kept getting mad at each other and stopped talking. Well a week before he left for college (an hour away) he asked me to be his girlfriend again and we were back together. Well a week later I heard that he had messed around on me even more while we were dating the first time so I asked him about it and he said no that wasn't true it happened when we weren't together but "talking" I got so mad I didn't talk to him for 3 days and he came into town just to see me and was begging forgiveness. Well that night he suggested we take a month and don't talk at all and see how we feel about each other after that month. I thought it was a good idea until I freaked out and started blowing up his phone over and over. He asked me to homecoming so I needed info and he wouldn't ansewr! I was gettting desperate to talk to him so one day he came into town and we talked and he said that he just needs time and space to decde what he wants. Well that was a week ago and last night I went to visit him in college so we could party and we were talking about the whole thing and he got mad and told me I was being so annoying and that he never wants to hangout because all I ever do is cry and talk about our future and that he doesn't want to talk about it anymore. I felt bad and apologized. He is coming in town next weekend to get ready for homecoming and then the next weekend for homecoming itself.
I love him and I just want him to come back to me. Is it possible? How can I do it? He said that he still loves me but that he just doesn't know if he wants to give up college partying life for a girlfriend right now. HELP!