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AmoreRio
Sep 23, 2010, 04:35 PM
OK well I'm 13 (just turned) and there is this really nice pretty girl at our school who just transferred here form the Dominican Republic. I don't think I should say her name but she is really kind and I liked her A lot. But the first time I saw her I almost fell off my seat. So from the moment she turned to our teacher and said Hola I knew I had to learn Spanish. So I started to learn it for her. She was unconscious to this fact. She (I'm guessing) just thought we were learning it for fun. But as time grew on we became closer and closer and the day came when it was my birthday (2 days ago). She took me to the library to go on Google translator to tell me something. I was not expecting anything special but she asked if I wanted to go to the mall with her for her and see a movie with her friends and I said OK. But that day she held hands with me and stuff and it was awesome.

But then the next day rumor had it that people were saying that we were dating and she was trying to tell them in English that she wasn't dating me. So that morning she was being all quiet. And at the library the guys were on translator flirting with her and one kid Alex (I don't care if you know his name) started asking her to do things with him and she was disgustingly flirting back and I was right next to her!! I was pissed off and ignored her all day.

The today in Geography of all the things she can say in English she tells Alex that she like shim and he was all glad and stuff and know I have mixed feelings and I'm very lost. I avoid her now and I don't bother with her that much anymore because she makes me so angry. Everyone looks at me weird now and Alex is annoying. He took my spot next to her at lunch now. Help should I give up or what. Did I do something wrong?

talaniman
Sep 23, 2010, 07:00 PM
She may have been cute but not so sweet and she wasn't the one for you. It happens, so leave her alone and check out someone else. Get one who is cute, and sweet... about YOU!

CupcakeLover99
Oct 16, 2010, 09:28 PM
Gosh, if I were you I would be sooo mad. But I'm a girl, and maybe you should let her know somehow that you really like her... she might not know. And if she still rejects you, accept the fact that she';s not your one and move on. I bet there's a girl out there that really really likes you and you just don't know it! You never know, there are more angelfish in the sea.
Hope this helps you
Good luck