My ex boyfriend Mark asked for me a break a month ago so that he could figure out what he wanted in life. Also so he could date other girls. He came over last night to get his stuff. He says he still loves me he's just not sure how much. We had been together for two and a half almost 3 years since we were 19 (we're both 22 now) He says that he doesn't feel like he's coming back. He is also dating his old HS gf's cousin. Do you think he will come back after enough time is passed? Should I hope that we will get back together? What should I do? I REALLY love him. As for solutions that I have already tried, I have not spoken to him at all for the past three weeks except for last night when he came to get his stuff. I am just trying to give him the time and space that he needs to figure himself out. What sucks even more about all this is that we were unoffically engaged at one point during our relationship. Need Advice?

He won't be back, Continue No Contact, and move forward with your life.

He won't be back, Continue No Contact, and move forward with your life.

Thanks. I know that now.

No, I doubt he'll come back. The best thing is to forget about him and cut off all communication. It's hard, I know--I've been there, but it's the fastest way to heal the pain. Work on finding your next relationship--hopefully a better one.

Doesn't look promising right now, and I think you plan ahead without him. Sorry for your loss.

Aren't you tired of sitting around waiting for him. He is out getting in another woman's pants, telling her how much he cares, blah,blah. Its hard to let go,to face having to start all over with the unknown. But the unknown is a whole lot better then being a rug underneath someone foot. You have a lot to offer the right man. Get out with friends, socialize and start a new...