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Nohitter410
Dec 28, 2006, 10:43 AM
I was just wondering how you could would respond if you ever ran into your ex either in person or on the phone and they mentioned they are now in another relationship.

The few ones that came to mind would be good for you, glad you found someone that can make you happy.

Not sure exactly and it really isn't a big deal either way just was wondering.

By the way just a quick update on myself. It has been almost 2 months and I am doing great. I really enjoy being single and the freedom it offers. It it tough to find a balance between having fun and too much fun but at 22 there is no reason for me to work on that balance yet.

I enjoy working out, partying with my friends, spending more time with the family and just experienecing everything else out there. I have no desire to jump back into a relationship but I know if something's comes out there I will definitely take it slow and not rush into anything.

talaniman
Dec 28, 2006, 11:07 AM
good for you, glad you found someone that can make you happy.
That sounds good just be as cordial, and polite and friendly as possible and short and sweet, depending on the circumstances.

richsaha2007
Dec 28, 2006, 02:12 PM
I would just give her my congrats and wish her luck. Knowing me, even if I was still in love with her, I would still be living my life and dating other girls. I learn to never put your life on hold for someone else. You only live once, so live!

Nohitter410
Dec 28, 2006, 03:26 PM
Definitely agreed, I had a weird setback the other day. I fell over a railing and basically my life flashed before my eyes and had the ability to be seriously hurt. I somehow survived falling down almost 25 feet. She was the first person to come to my head but I kept that to myself because I know it was a phase and if it wasn't it still isn't something she would want to hear.

Living life is all I do. I have a great job right out of college in a great area in DC. Travel to NY a lot and have many friends and a great family that loves me. One girl doesn't make or break or define who I am. I am the only one who defines who I am. I have been working hard to get my life in order and enjoy the excitement of meeting new people.