View Full Version : Why didn't I see this coming?
Broadcasting
Sep 14, 2010, 10:46 PM
I had been dating this guy for 6 months, first love, we lost our virginity's to each other, everyday we spent together was amazing. I would be able to tell if he wasn't having a good time. Everything between us was practically perfect then one day he decides he doesn't like me anymore. I can't stop asking myself what I did wrong and what's wrong with me? I feel nauseous and when I see him it almost always triggers me to puke. Is there any natural ways to get over this feeling? They say time heals all wounds but there's not enough time.
O_Troubles
Sep 15, 2010, 12:01 AM
6 months is not that long it takes longer to heal a broken bone. Every break up will hurt, no matter what age or how long. But you will get over it. And 3 boyfriends from now you won't remember this guy. And when you break up with mr #3 you'll be sad, and then you won't care after a few weeks because you moved on. Your ex is not pining over you why should you fawn over him, you really want to be with a **** that dumps you like that? You will be OK and yes there is enough time. Remember the happiness of the first love and use this experience to choose better men in your future.
answerme_tender
Sep 15, 2010, 06:32 AM
You going through the loss of your first love, but remember the key word here is first ot last. Unfortunately there is no magic word that can be said that will ease the sorrow you are going through right now. The only thing you can do is hold your head up and act like what he did to you didn't effect you at all when you see him. Your family and friends will be there to help---Good luck
anzalpe
Sep 29, 2010, 11:25 PM
You just have lost your first love, and stop asking yourself what did you do wrong. Probably its his issue and he doesn't know how much you love him and how much he is losing. I think its better for you to walk away and get over him it is just don't worth it and you are too much for him. At the end he will realize that he made a mistake. And he would be the one regretting not you. Good luck!