I left my husband 10 months ago and it hurt him so bad. We just had a baby and I was very depressed. Instead of talking to him about what I was feeling I just walked out on him. Things have been going down hill with us since then. He has a "friend" which is killing me. I want my husband back and my family back. We see each other a lot but its only when he picks up our daughter. I have been so mean to him with my words. I have been faithful to him this whole tome we have been apart. Any advice on how to get my husband back??

Talking , tell him what you just told us .

Have you told him your feelings?

I have told him all of this and how I feel but he thinks that I will just hurt him again... all my friends think I should just give up and walk away but he and I have been together for 9 years and I just cant.

You may have to. He's been hurt very badly. Tell him you will go to counseling if he want to try again.

Unfortunately you are probably just going to prolong the envitable.

You may both try and go to counselling if he agrees, but given the climate, the first bump in the road and he will probably bolt if he is inclined to 'not want to be hurt again'.

Words leave deep scars and sometimes just aren't as easy to overcome.

Good luck.

Is this the first time you've walked out on him or has it happened before?

If this is the one and only time, then maybe you need to talk to him seriously about the fact that you may have been suffering from some post-partum depression.

If this has happened before, he may not be receptive to getting back together (and rightly so).