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Aiyako
Sep 8, 2010, 05:47 PM
So I have a very close friend whom I rely on a lot. He has been there for me through thick and thin. Lately though I have been feeling aroused while with him or even talking to him. I have a boyfriend who I am very happy with but this is bothering me quite a bit. He as well has a girlfriend and I do NOT in anyway want to jeopardize our relationships. Help?

Dysenchanted
Sep 8, 2010, 07:13 PM
Basically, when that happens, immediately think about your boyfriend/his girlfriend. Try to stop that feeling from coming. Eventually it should go away.

If you never want anything to come of it, you need to make sure you try to stop this from continuing. It's natural though, I've been there and it does pass. Just be persistent and try to think about something else.

If you can't keep from getting aroused while around him, maybe spend less time together and eventually it might go away.

Aiyako
Sep 12, 2010, 12:35 AM
Thank you so much :) I will be sure to try this