Salam. I am married to a man in UK for last 2 years, and I live in US and was planning to move to UK. My husband is a very religious man, our marriage was not legal however we had nikkah over phone and later signed a nikkah paper. He was changing for last three months and as I was scheduled to go back to our London home in April, he tried to say that he is busy. He was talkingto me, emailing me and texting me fine. The day I arrived he sent me a text that he is going away and I shouldn't have come. I went to the house which he locked, but when managed to get in the house, I saw another woman lives there. He returned as I talked to him over the phone. He came and that women came. My husband is 52 and she is only 20. In summary he told me that he married her (he got her from Pakistan) and want to get rid of me. There was no excuse, he was loving and caring until 2 days ago. In summary, I was wounded and tormented. He left with girl, but came back after 4 days thinking that I must have left. When he saw me in the house, the girl told him to get rid of me, and he told me that he divorce me three times in very angry mood. I didn't say anything I was just crying and wanted him to speak to me. The girl dialed police number and told him to run out of the house. He ran out of the house, police came and called him back. He told the police to remove me from the property, I kept begging him to talk to me, as I really love him and cared for him as a husband. He refused and police threatened me that if I don't leave they will arrest me to be on someone else property. I took no action and they left me in a hotel and next day I came back to US. Only my Allah knows that I didn't say a single bad word, and did not take any action, as I still dearly love him. However, I am very confuse about the divorce. Some says that it is divorce and others says its not. My soul is damaged badly, I don't know who to tell, only one sister and couple of friends know about it. I seek help from Allah, but wants to take my life many time. Since I left no one ever contacted me.
I do not want divorce, I can live like this till Allah wants me to do so. I do not want to do anything which is against Islam. Please advise me about whether its divorce or not and if it is, do I have to have nikkah with some one else, if I have to marry him again. I can't think to anyone else ever. Please tell me how should I heal my soul. I love him, I trusted him and his love for Islam brought me closer to him.
I appreciate your help. As I have to work and support myself and my job is demanding but I can't focus at all. Looking for help

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