I love a widow she have a child I don't mind but my parents may be un happy. My question is is my family accept this relation ?

How can we possibly know what your family will do?

Why do you not ask your family, and does it make a difference how they feel about who you love?

Talk to your family about it if their approval is this important to you. We have no way of knowing what they'd aprove of.

Who really cares if they accept it or not. It is your life not theirs.

Go for it. Be happy.