Me and my boyfriend have been together on and of for about two years. When we first started dating he vanished after four months. He used to chat on the internet with other men. We're gay by the way. The sex has always been an issue. I want it more and he just never wants to be intimate. He is trying harder to make the relationship work, but because of all the downfalls we had, it feels like too little too late. I don't know what to do.

Me and my boyfriend have been together on and of for about two years. When we first started dating he vanished after four months. He used to chat on the internet with other men. We're gay by the way. The sex has always been an issue. I want it more and he just never wants to be intimate. He is trying harder to make the relationship work, but because of all the downfalls we had, it feels like too little too late. I don't know what to do.

How long had you been together when he vanished?

Some more information about your "downfalls" would help.

How long ago did he give up chatting with other men?

How old are you?

This info would help a great deal in formulating a response .

2 years? Find someone stable.

You both have a lot of past baggage to unpack.