tcorley
Sep 1, 2010, 05:28 PM
I am 22 years old and have been having on and off problems keeping an erection during sex. I have been dating the same girl for over 2 years now and we just started having sex about 9 months ago. It started one night soon after our first time when I may have been too drunk to have sex and it ended with me and her having a big fight about it. Then it was fine for a week or so and it happened again while putting a condom on. So we figured it was just a problem with the condom and she started putting it on me. This helped for a while but the same problem of keeping an erection kept occurring randomly. Now we haven't had sex in over a month and it has happened 3 or 4 times during that time. She has given me oral a few times which it worked then but when we try and have sex something just happens and I loose my erection. I am more attracted to her than I have been to any other girl so I know that is not the problem. It has just gotten worse and worse now she is thinking that we need to break up. I don't know what to do about the problem or how to fix it but I do not want to break up with her. Please help me figure out/fix this problem of keeping an erection.