View Full Version : Should I forget my feelings for him or not?
giggle_monster
Aug 30, 2010, 07:03 PM
Well as you know I got a new problem and don't know what to do about it. So I was thinking if you would help me. I'm a junior, 11th grade, and there is this guy I like which is a freshman, 9th grade. We were friends and hanged out a lot. Then a few days ago we went out and now today he wrote me a note that said he was dumping me and that he didn't want to hurt me. Well he did, I cried a lot today. I cried in 6th hour and when I was riding to the bank. Well I wrote him back and I forgot most of it but the stuff I do remember is: I told him I wanted another shot, that he hurt me, and that I really liked him. When he text me today he told me couldn't give me another shot. I asked him why and he said because but nothing else. He told me it was because he couldn't date anyone older. I told him I have been crying. He told me he was sorry and that he really liked me. I think we are friends and we still talk. I don't know what to do, I really like him and his kisses were really good and addicting or I couldn't get enough of him kissing me.
Homegirl 50
Aug 31, 2010, 07:05 AM
Don't sound or act pityful. You're getting bent out of shape over a what 13/14 year old.
The boy does not want to date you. He was honest enough to tell you, now you be the older mature one and deal with it.
Life will go on.
You like him and are addicted to his kisses, that's it. You'll survive.
Kitkat22
Aug 31, 2010, 07:10 AM
Move on! Crying makes him feel empowered! Find someone your own age.
giggle_monster
Aug 31, 2010, 04:13 PM
I know I should move on and I know I will survive. I kind of told him that I'm addicted to his kisses. And I miss him kissing me. I'm trying to move on. It's not as easy as it sounds.
Homegirl 50
Aug 31, 2010, 05:57 PM
I know it's not, but for your own good, you must
Kitkat22
Aug 31, 2010, 06:11 PM
Forget him... I use to be addicted to cigarettes but they they were bad for me and everyone around me. I stopped.
giggle_monster
Sep 1, 2010, 06:13 PM
I am. Do you think I should stay away from him for a while? I think I might stay away anyway.
Kitkat22
Sep 1, 2010, 07:19 PM
I am. Do you think I should stay away from him for a while? I think I might stay away anyway.
He doesn't want to have a relationship. Move on and enjoy being young.:)