fednerbassman95
Aug 30, 2010, 05:54 PM
There's this girl I really like and I think she feels the same way. She's hinted that if I don't ask her soon I'll miss my chance. The problem is I have no idea what to say to her. Can anyone help me out?
dontknownuthin
Aug 30, 2010, 09:05 PM
Think of something fun to do and a time to do it and ask if she'd like to go. It's not hard and it doesn't have to be clever.
For example, "If you were going to go to a movie, what would you like to see? When she tells you (even if you don't want to see it) you can then say, "May I take you to see that this weekend?"
I think it's nice to invite a person to do something specific and not just "to hang out". A girl likes to see that the guy is going to some trouble to plan something, and will treat her by paying for it.
It doesn't have to be a movie or dinner - it can be a fair or carnival, bowling, canoing, hiking, a day in the city - whatever you like to do and think she'd enjoy, too.
If you don't know what she likes to do you can ask her, "I'd love to spend some time with you this weekend and was wondering if you're free, and if you have any ideas of what you might like to do".
I wish
Aug 31, 2010, 06:51 AM
Ask her out for a coffee or lunch. Meet up. Talk. Get to know each other and go from there.