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sad_girl
Aug 25, 2010, 05:04 AM
What to do when the guy you have loved ignores you
Its not that am not pretty and all that.I love myself.but why the heck can't someone love me back.its frustrating sometimes.am already 25.some of my friends are already married,some engaged etc..
Shadowburn
Aug 25, 2010, 08:01 AM
It takes awhile to find a right person. You didn't tell much about yourself, but you have to create a full and happy life for yourself. Being happy is very attractive. Don't look at others getting engaged/married, you're still very young.
talaniman
Aug 25, 2010, 08:12 AM
Don't be jealous of them because they are married. Just make better decisions in YOUR own partners, and how you treat them, and how they treat YOU!
sad_girl
Aug 25, 2010, 09:14 PM
Thank you for your responses.. its not that I am jealous and all that.. but it's the reaction I get upon saying am still single.. and I won't deny the fact that am happy,but still at some juncture I still feel some pangs of loneliness.. I mean I know I am surrounded by loving parents and friends and all that but still..
Kitkat22
Aug 25, 2010, 10:35 PM
Don't give up. You will meet the right one and he will be worth the wait.
sad_girl
Aug 26, 2010, 12:04 AM
Lol.. thank you kitkat22.. "Help Me Be Patient." "Help Me Be Kind" "Help Me Not Throw My Lap Top Out the Window, When I Get Angry." this has really boosted my moral..
wonderlife
Aug 26, 2010, 06:46 AM
This is because you don't meet with the right one yet and there's nothing wrong with it or with you. Just an idea, I think you may take this time to think or write down what are you looking for in a guy who will become your partner and what you won't tolerate or compromise.
Single girls can feel this way many times in a month... haha. Good to know that you love yourself and your life. Be happy and enjoy life every day and one day I believe you will find the one who loves you for who you are and of course you will love him. Best of luck to you!
Jlesnik33
Aug 26, 2010, 07:20 AM
Like everyone said, wait, && I'm sure mr right is out there waiting for you.
He will show up when your not looking for him.
Don't rush things, because then you'll be in a relationship you really don't want.
Homegirl 50
Aug 26, 2010, 08:39 AM
If the guys you meet are dumping you maybe you are hooking up with the wrong kinds of guys.
Make a list of what you are looking for and a list of deal breakers.
Get a better idea of what you want and don't settle for less than that.
sad_girl
Aug 27, 2010, 02:23 AM
Thank you soooooo much everyone.. one who had claimed to love me once is flaunting his being in love again(of course not with me) on social sites.. he broke up cause he thought he was ill or something and did not want me to suffer and stuffs like that but now he's in love with someone else,I mean what was the need to lie.. anyways...
Jlesnik33
Aug 27, 2010, 05:56 AM
Don't even worry about him, He lied to make himself feel good. Don't daydream on the past or these guys who hurt your feelings. Focus on the future && yourself, you will be surprised on who will show up in your life.
Homegirl 50
Aug 27, 2010, 06:31 AM
thank you sooooo much everyone..one who had claimed to love me once is flaunting his being in love again(of course not with me) on social sites..he broke up cause he thought he was ill or something and did not want me to suffer and stuffs like that but now he's in love with someone else,i mean what was the need to lie..anyways..........
Some guys are creeps to everybody. Don't take it personal. Be glad he is ou of your life now.
sad_girl
Aug 27, 2010, 02:54 PM
Thanks guys