For the past 2 yrs both are loving together. Now in her home searching another guy for her. Nowadays I could able to see some different between my lover. She is not closing to me. Always irritating and getting angry on me.. I think that she also decided to better than me to get another guy for marry her. I want her. If I keep sex with her means she will be with me only.. please give some true response

Here is my advice, Leave her be! I have read some of your other threads, and I'm sorry, but you have problems.

I think she can do better.

Also, stop posting the same questions over and over.

Thank you!

Are you Hindu?

Yes

Which caste?

Which caste is she?

Not my caste


She is another caste
And me is another caste

Is this correct? For the past two years, you and she have been boyfriend and girlfriend. Now her parents are searching for a husband for her. She has become indifferent to you and is not close to you, seems to be rejecting you. She easily becomes irritated and angry toward you. You think she has decided that her parents are correct and will find her a better man than you are. Then she will want to marry him. You believe if you have sex with her, she must marry you.

Correct so far?

Yes


Absolutely correct. I don't like to compel her to have sex. So only have to seduce her and have to sex with her.

Is your caste lower than hers?

Are her parents against you because of your caste?

Her parents don t know about our relation. If her parents ask her means surely she will forget me... so it is not possible to speak with her parents.

Her parents will not consider you for marriage because of your caste? Because of your lack of wealth or education? Why?

Who told you that having sex with her will cause her to marry you?

My friends told that have sex with her. So no one separate her from you... like that.. I am also thinking that this is correct solution.. see I can t live without her... if she leave me means I will addtict some other bad habits

Your friends are wrong.

Why won't her parents allow you to marry her?

Have you told her what you want? Have you talked with her about what SHE wants? There seems to be her family wanting one thing from her and you wanting another. What does she want?

There is the possibility that she has decided on her own that she doesn't love you the way you want her to care about you. If that is the case, you cannot make someone feel something she doesn't. You have to accept her choice and let go. It hurts, but the pain does go away and you learn from the experience. It is an unfortunate part of being human.

Think about what you want her to do. Don't just think about what you want and are willing to do to get her, but take a realistic look at what she can expect if she goes against her family's wishes. Put yourself in her shoes and think about what it would mean if your family wanted you to marry someone other than her. Think about a future where you don't fit into one caste/family and you can't go back to your own.

I hope you return. I want to help you somehow.

Are you in a city or in a village or in the country? In villages and in the country, even today people are very rigid in matters of marriages. They prefer that their sons and daughters marry in the same caste and community; otherwise, they disown their son/daughter.

What addictions would you have if you don't have this girl?

Is she afraid to disobey her parents, and that is why she is shunning you?

She doesn't seem to want you, and it seems your relationship is not to her liking, so I hope you take the hint, because I doubt she lets you seduce her, so forget it. Your friend is wrong, absolutely wrong, and maybe that's why she rejects you, because she doesn't want sex with you.

I don't think you have a relationship with her since she hasn't tried bring you home to her parents. I doubt you have even been courting in public, or gone on any dates so I think you better leave her alone. If you are that weak of a man to get addicted over a female, I doubt you are marriage material for any female, no matter what caste you are.

Sorry guy, you cannot make a female yours without her consent, and you don't have it.