Also how long should I stay swollen.. I don't want to look like my breast are too big for my body for too long. Or is the swelling not really all that bad.

Your Physician is the best person to tell you what you can expect based on your individual procedure - however, you are swollen for a period, you can't lift for weeks and the Physician will determine what size is not too big for your frame.

Also how long should i stay swollen..i dont wanna look like my breast are too big for my body for too long. Or is the swelling not really all that bad.

It worries me a little that you're asking this. Your doctor should have told you this, have you gone to your 6 week check-up yet?

I haven't even had the surgery yet.. its coming up though. I will ask him. Just was curious that day. Thank you for your concern

Some of this will also depend on which procedure the surgeon uses, and there are several choices.