Why is this world so messed up? Why do we have babies missing? Why do we live in poverty? Why do they say it's a free country and its not? Why do we feed others in other countries and we have starving children here in the USA? Why do we have people getting out of jail when they have done harm to a child? WHY DO WE TREAT IMMIGRATES BETTER THEN WE TREAT OUR OWN? WHY?

Whose babies are missing? Which children are starving?

Is your real question the immigrant one?

What are you just reading what you want to cause I think I asked more than just those 2 duh

Oh well my bad those THREE!

Some I know the answer to. I asked about the ones I don't know.

America's children! Why don't we better help our people before we help everyone else's!

We do help our children. There are many, many agencies and groups that help. Which children do you believe need help?

Well I seem to see on the news that we send people over to other countries to help others when we also need help here! Wheres the pay it forward at when America needs it?

Well I was just told that I qualify for legal aid but they don't know if they have the funds to help *** but its OK my child will suffer for that! I do all I can as a mother and have never asked for help of any kind and then when I do I get an answer like that... sorry I'm just really angry at the system right now... ITS F-ING BROKEN!

I ask again -- which of our children need help?

Let's start over. What do you need help with?

My children and lots of others!! Why do you have the funds to help?? Do you have people that you know that will help with my son or others that I know that live in Iowa! This system has failed a 12 year old boy! Grrrrrr

I still don't know what you need. Please explain.

Well I have visitation set by the court and the father will not let me see him and moves every time I find him. What is he trying to hide... he won't let me see my son and if I want to hire my own attorney its going to be a $5000 retainer fee. I work and go to school to get a better life for my children and I just don't have $$$$$$$$$$ like that just laying around. Why is it that a drug dealer or a person that does harm to a child can get legal aid but someone that is a good citizen can not!

Isn't this a police matter, if the father disappears with the child when it's your turn to have the child?

Do you and the father have a bad relationship? What does he have against you?

Are you really kidding me right now... Im not playing... do you have kids lady because you say you're an expert but you have nothing else to say but "witch of our children" *** is wrong with you? Do you know what its like not being able to see your child or what.. tread lightly with your comments cause I don't have time to play games with people we are talking about my son... his name is Preston he's 12 years old he loves to dirt bike ride and hang out with his friends. He was born September 24th and weighed 8lbs 4oz and was 21in long... what else do you want to know... here let me tell you a little bit about me... I have 3 boys one of them I have not spent time with for 5 years... we talk on Facebook and we meet places when his dad is at work so his dad don't find out... I cry myself to sleep every night because I miss him and can't answer the questions of my 6 and 8 year old who wants to know why there brother can't come spent the night what else do you want to know lady!

I'm trying very hard to find out what is going on. Why is the father keeping your son away from you?

If I knew that question I could give my 6 and 8 year old an answer I don't know why! Him and his wife got a split right before he stopped letting me see him and he got an assault charge against him and his wife had a restraining order on him too that's the only thing I can think of! Maybe he don't want me to know! I DON'T KNOW!

Please calm down. The experts who might be able to help you are in the Central or Eastern Time Zone. They'll find this thread Saturday morning. Apparently the only thing I'm doing is making you angrier. Good night.

NO your fine I just frustrated by all of this. Its not you at all that I'm upset at. Im sorry if I came off to being angry at you. Im just venting. I just want to know why!

Im so sorry if I came off at you the wrong way I am normally not like this.

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