View Full Version : My girlfriend hates me..
lover17235
Aug 17, 2010, 08:24 AM
My girlfriend hates me now, I'm pretty sure. I asked her if she wanted to have sex, I said it wouldn't hurt BUT I accidentally said I had sex with other girls before (just one, my ex-girlfriend) she was like, what?? then she just got mad. Will she get over it, cause she was pretty mad :( ?
SweetDee
Aug 17, 2010, 08:30 AM
How old are you both?
lover17235
Aug 17, 2010, 08:40 AM
SweetDee: we are both 18
lover17235
Aug 17, 2010, 08:49 AM
SweetDee: she's 17 actually**
slapshot_oi
Aug 17, 2010, 08:51 AM
She doesn't hate you, she's just jealous.
lover17235
Aug 17, 2010, 08:54 AM
slapshot_oi: why would she be jealous? I think she is mad cause I had sex with another girl...
Homegirl 50
Aug 17, 2010, 08:56 AM
If she has never had sex before it probably will hurt, so for you to say that is just silly. Sounds like you just want some.
Was she under the impression that you had not had sex with anyone?
To say "oh it won't hurt, I've had sex with other girls and it was fine" is a totally stupid thing to say
lover17235
Aug 17, 2010, 09:06 AM
Homegirl 50: yeah, I know, I'm stupid, it slipped out of my mouth... :(
slapshot_oi
Aug 17, 2010, 09:06 AM
Why wouldn't she be jealous? You might as well have said "well what the hell my ex was okay with it, what's wrong with you?". It's just rude.
She doesn't hate you, you said something stupid, you didn't mean to offend her. It happens, move on.
Shaydie
Aug 17, 2010, 01:30 PM
She doesn't hate you and so what if she does. Unless you told her you were a virgin and lied then it is really not her concern.
As a side note, You should not be pressuring anyone for sex. It is uncomfortable to be pressured when you aren't ready.
Shaydie
Aug 17, 2010, 01:49 PM
This user has posted as a male and as a female...
SweetDee
Aug 17, 2010, 01:55 PM
She'll get over being jelouse that you had sex with someone other than her in your life before she came around...
Also did you ever think that your virginity was one of the many reasons she really liked you?
Losing one's virginity "together" has a impact on some young adults.
I hope you both have worked it out and all is well by now. :)