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sugar_babe
Aug 17, 2010, 05:31 AM
We were at a party my boyfriend left early when I went outside to go home his bro grabed me and strated kissing he had his hands up my top I pushed his of and slaped him the next day his bro called me and told me he would tell him that I was all over him I know my boyfriend will break up with me if he thinks I kissed his bro I really want us to work please help...

Devorameira
Aug 17, 2010, 07:13 AM
In my opinion, I think you should tell your boyfriend. It's better for you to tell him up front than to hear it later from his bro.

This is a sticky situation, but it sounds to me like his bro might use this to blackmail you later. Don't allow that to happen... talk to your boyfriend now and nip it in the butt.

If you tell him the truth and he chooses to believe the lies his bro tells, then he's just not worth it.

sugar_babe
Aug 17, 2010, 07:51 AM
There is a party on Friday my and my twin bro are dying to go to but our dad sez we can't go we got grounded last week I don't want to hurt my dad the party is going to end really late last night we came up with sneacking out but is it really that wrong

JudyKayTee
Aug 17, 2010, 07:52 AM
Yes, it's called lying to your parents. As long as you are under your father's roof, he gets to make decisions on your behalf.

Of course, you could always get a job and your own apartment, get emancipated, then you can do what you want.

Things like this are posted all the time and then children wonder why their parents don't trust them.

If I were molested at one party I wouldn't sneak out to go to another - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-do-tell-bf-his-bro-kissed-me-499005.html#post2485615

excon
Aug 17, 2010, 07:53 AM
Hello s:

Obey your parents. It doesn't hurt to ask WHY they're doing what they're doing, though.

excon

JudyKayTee
Aug 17, 2010, 07:54 AM
Apparently this wasn't too big a problem for you because you are planning to sneak out of your house, against your father's wishes, to attend another party - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-family-people/wrong-sneak-out-party-499040.html#post2485816

Again - I'm not sure what the truth is and think these threads should be combined.

Devorameira
Aug 17, 2010, 11:25 AM
Your parents are looking out for your well-being. Don't sneak out just to talk to your boyfriend. Why not just call him up and tell him about the situation with his bro?