loveless044
Aug 15, 2010, 08:45 AM
Okay I'm a bit clueless here but here goes...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. We've had sex several times. About once a week actually (we're 17 by the way)... and he is always trying to tell me that we should use condoms because he doesn't want me to end up pregnant. I have one more year in high school and he has two. Neither of us need to be rocking a baby this soon.
But anyway... the reason I don't like using condoms is because they seem to irritate me. They give me an itchy burning feeling that is just unpleasant and ruins the sex. Sometimes he'll sneak off to the bathroom while I'm in bed and he'll slip one one but as soon as he puts it in, I can tell because, like I said, it irritates me. So I just pull it off and we finish without it.
He always pulls out in time enough not to *** inside of me but the last time we had sex (last week) he said he may have did it in me just a little. I'm not too nervous about becoming pregnant because I know it'd be our faults so whatever but if I got lucky this time by not becoming pregnant then I want to prevent it best I can next time...
First thing comes to mind is birth control, right. Well here's the spin on that. I can't take birth control. Not the pill, nor the Depo. Shot. Why? I was diagnosed with severe migrain headaches back in last year. They will not allow me to get on either of those types of birth control because it will only make my headaches worse... I know they have implants but they recommend those for women who have already had a baby... I really really hate condoms, and I don't want to give up sex... so what do I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 months. We've had sex several times. About once a week actually (we're 17 by the way)... and he is always trying to tell me that we should use condoms because he doesn't want me to end up pregnant. I have one more year in high school and he has two. Neither of us need to be rocking a baby this soon.
But anyway... the reason I don't like using condoms is because they seem to irritate me. They give me an itchy burning feeling that is just unpleasant and ruins the sex. Sometimes he'll sneak off to the bathroom while I'm in bed and he'll slip one one but as soon as he puts it in, I can tell because, like I said, it irritates me. So I just pull it off and we finish without it.
He always pulls out in time enough not to *** inside of me but the last time we had sex (last week) he said he may have did it in me just a little. I'm not too nervous about becoming pregnant because I know it'd be our faults so whatever but if I got lucky this time by not becoming pregnant then I want to prevent it best I can next time...
First thing comes to mind is birth control, right. Well here's the spin on that. I can't take birth control. Not the pill, nor the Depo. Shot. Why? I was diagnosed with severe migrain headaches back in last year. They will not allow me to get on either of those types of birth control because it will only make my headaches worse... I know they have implants but they recommend those for women who have already had a baby... I really really hate condoms, and I don't want to give up sex... so what do I do?