Okay so me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and my dad won't let me talk to him anymore like AT ALL the only way we talk is on myspace... and I REALLY do love him and please don't say I'm "to young" for that NO I'm not I truly love him and we do love each other we thought about breaking up but I don't want anybody else I want & NEED him we really don't know what to do... the reason is he's turning 17 December and I'm barley turning 16 in December, so the problem is my dad won't let us talk anymore AT ALL so what should we do?? If we only talk online? BREAKING UP IS NOOOOT AN OPTION.

Is an oline romance or have you met this guy?

Okay. You're 15 and he's 16. How have you talked in the past? -- via the computer mics like with Skype? By phone?

By saying your dad won't let you "talk to him," do you mean communicate at all with him or literally TALK with him (voice contact)?

How long has this long-distance relationship been going on? Has your father allowed it in the past?

Okay so me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and my dad won't let me talk to him anymore like AT ALL the only way we talk is on myspace... and I REALLY do love him and please don't say I'm "to young" for that NO I'm not I truly love him and we do love each other we thought about breaking up but I don't want anybody else I want & NEED him we really don't know what to do... the reason is he's turning 17 December and I'm barley turning 16 in December, so the problem is my dad won't let us talk anymore AT ALL so what should we do?? If we only talk online? BREAKING UP IS NOOOOT AN OPTION. & right now I just want to kill myself... so what should I do?

What should you do? Obey your father.

You are "barely turning 16 in december?" What does that mean? You either ARE or ARE NOT turning 16 in December.

This thread explains why Daddy doesn't want you two together..

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/dont-think-im-enough-boyfriend-494273.html

I don't blame Daddy, he's not ready to be a grandfather and you're too young to be a mother.

This thread explains why Daddy doesn't want you two together..

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/dont-think-im-enough-boyfriend-494273.html

I don't blame Daddy, he's not ready to be a grandfather and you're too young to be a mother.

I think your Daddy needs to lock you in the house till you grow a brain and have a little more respect for yourself. :(

Your boyfriend sounds like a controlling loser and your father has more sense than you and your boyfriend.
Leave this guy alone.

Before We Were together like in person, and my dad didn't know about him, then we had to move and we had to talk on the phone and yesterday my dad said we can't anymore he still doesn't know about us going out, we been in the long distance for about 3 months now. And yea a lot of people say they agree with my dad but He's the abusive one which is the only reason I don't tell him about a lot of things. And no I'm not ready to be a mommie and I know he's not ready to be a grandfather we were protective when we had sex [me&my BF]

Before We Were together like in person, and my dad didn't know about him, then we had to move and we had to talk on the phone and yesterday my dad said we can't anymore he still doesn't know about us going out, we been in the long distance for about 3 months now. And yea alot of people say they agree with my dad but He's the abusive one which is the only reason i don't tell him about alot of things. and no im not ready to be a mommie and i know he's not ready to be a grandfather we were protective when we had sex [me&my BF]

I don't care if wears two condoms... you need to back away. If you think it's abuse on your dads part because he won't let you ruin your life with this loser , that is not abuse. He's being a good parent. You and this guy are going screw up your lives. Don't accuse your Dad of being abusive just because he won't let you fool around with this guy. He loves you, that's what parents do. Knock it off with the lying.

Then your dad must think you are too young to date in which case you need to go by his rules.
You and this guy's relationship was funky and inappropriate anyway.
This could be a good time to move on.

Okay seriously why would I lie about my dad abusing me? I know what abuse is and not letting me see him or talk to him isn't abuse I literally me ABUSE hitting me, and Mental Abuse if you don't believe me then don't try to help because I really wouldn't lie about something that serious

okay seriously why would i lie about my dad abusing me? i know what abuse is and not letting me see him or talk to him isn't abuse i literally me ABUSE hitting me, and Mental Abuse if you don't believe me then don't try to help because i really wouldn't lie about something that serious

Tell me about the abuse? I'll listen.

First of course there is no real safe sex, even if on birth control and using condoms, women do still get pregnant.
And of course at 15 the boyfriend is a rapist in most ( if not all) US states and if you had sex with him, your dad could easily send him to prison.

Next long distance seldom works at your age for long, you need to live you life as a teen you are.

If your father is abusing you, that is a separate matter.
You still have no business having the type of relationship you were having with this boy. That relationship was unhealthy and inappropriate. In that, your father is right.

I'm waiting Bijou and so are the others.. we'll listen

How Are We Having An Innapropriate Relationship? & My Names Angel By the way
& Waitingg For What?

How Are We Having An Innapropriate Relationship?? & My Names Angel By the way
& Waitingg For What?

You want to talk about the abuse by your father . That what we're waiting to know about. Know one know your real name or where you live.
We're waiting to hear about what your dad does that you consider abuse.

Okaay well about the abuse, basically I don't really know what you would like to knoow.. soooo.. hmm he hits me not like how some parents hit their kids he hits like he's fighting somebody but I noticed he never hits me in my face, its always my back & my stomach. Anything else you want to know? & I'm turning 16 in 4 months! Even my mom said I should be aloud to date (I don't live with her they got divorced when I was 2)

All I have to say is. That a lot of these answers are just not right, like the poor girl says she's in love! Dose no one get that, I say that if you guys really do love each other, then you guys can find a way to make it work. Have you ever tried to go to a friends house, and use their phones. And what about a cell-phone. I think that if you guys really do like each other,then myspace really will have to be good enough. :) :o

I'm grounded until school starts, so I can't but when school starts I plan to use my friends phone and I have a cell phone but he gets all my calls & texts on my records pretty annoyingg... but yea thanks for understanding!

okaay well about the abuse, basically i don't really know what you would like to knoow..soooo..hmm he hits me not like how some parents hit their kids he hits like he's fighting somebody but i noticed he never hits me in my face, its always my back & my stomach. Anything else you want to know?? & im turning 16 in 4 months! even my mom said i should be aloud to date (i dont live with her they got divorced when i was 2)

Sorry I 'm with your Dad on this one. I don't believe in hitting a child. I did swat my kids on the rear when they needed it. Would you really want to tell this to authorities? Your dad abuses you report him,, but before you do you better be sure you are telling the truth,

You and the boyfriend broke the rules and if you lie about this and your Dad gets into trouble, sure you will be able to do what you want unless the guy is charged with a crime of contributaing to a minorand rape. What shocks me is the fact your mother is not supporting your Dad in his stand about this boy.

You do what you have to do, but if you're lying.. it could ruin your Dad's life.

All I have to say is. That alot of these answers are just not right, like the poor girl says she's in love! Dose no one get that, I say that if you guys really do love eachother, then you guys can find a way to make it work. Have you ever tryed to go to a friends house, and use their phones. And what about a cell-phone. I think that if you guys really do like eachother,then myspace really will have to be good enough. :) :o
I don't care how in love she thinks she is, she is 15 this boy 17, her father does not want her dating and this boy has no business with her.
According to another thread of hers she is having problems with the boy on a sexual level anyway, so this whole thing is messed up.

How Are We Having An Inappropriate Relationship?? & My Names Angel By the way
& Waiting For What?
For one thing your ages. He should not be messing with you and certainly not having sex with you. According to one of your threads you two have sexual issues anyway, which is one more reason you should not be dating and having sex at your age.

I don't care how in love she thinks she is, she is 15 this boy 17, her father does not want her dating and this boy has no business with her.
According to another thread of hers she is having problems with the boy on a sexual level anyway, so this whole thing is messed up.

I agree Home Girl.

Yea and I can unserstand that you would hit them when they needed it but he hits me sometimes to take his anger out on me when I don't even do anything and I'm not going to report him because then my BF would get in trouble. & he's 16 not 17 our Birthdays are the same day so I'll be 16 and he'll be 17 I mean seriously? It's ONE YEAR apart does that really mean much?

yea and i can unserstand that you would hit them when they needed it but he hits me sometimes to take his anger out on me when i don't even do anything and i'm not going to report him because then my BF would get in trouble. & he's 16 not 17 our Birthdays are the same day so i'll be 16 and he'll be 17 i mean seriously? it's ONE YEAR apart does that really mean much?

Does he leave bruises?

At any rate, then the mature thing for you to do is do as your father says and leave this be.
You should not be having sex with this boy anyway. He walks all over you in that area according to your other thread. This whole deal is messed up.
I suggest you use this time to really think about going any further with this boy.

Some yea but he doesn't do it as bad as he used to so their aren't many, and I cover then up anyway and wait for them to go away which is another reason I'm not reporting him because then they will most likley think I'm lying because the bruises don't show much anymore

You need to talk to someone about the situation with your father if it is that bad. Don't allow yourself to be abused just because you don't want to get your boyfriend in trouble.
Was this happening before the boy friend?

I Can't Just Leave Somebody that I love A lot and just break up with him like that and forget about it.

At any rate, then the mature thing for you to do is do as your father says and leave this be.
You should not be having sex with this boy anyway. He walks all over you in that area according to your other thread. This whole deal is messed up.
I suggest you use this time to really think about going any further with this boy.

I agree with Hg. I'm struck with the response if I tell on my Dad it will get my boyfriend in trouble'. No what will get your boyfriend in trouble is continuing this relationship. You will end up pregnant , with an std and don't think Mr. StudMan is going to stick around,

If you continue this there is also a chance of a confrontation between him and your Dad. Someone could get hurt. We as parents are like momma and poppa bears when it comes to our children.

Your mom needs to get her head out of the clouds and stand with your Dad on this. Be leery young lady. Take a moment to think of what you're doing.

Okay then we won't have sex anymore. But what do you expect me to do? Just break up with him & never talk to him again then become depressed? Because if we break up he already said he's going to the military because there's nothing better for him. And I really don't know what I'm going to do. I've Already thought about Suicide but I don't know yet
And my dad doesn't let my mom be involved at all.

KitKat she does not live with her mom, but I'm sure her mom thinking she should be allowed to date does not mean having sex with this boy, who according to her doesn't want to have sex that much with her any way is heavy into porn and won't allow her to masturbate. Now tell me that isn't some messes up stuff!
You say you NEED this boy.
This is 15/16 year old angst.
This relationship is dysfunctional your dad probably senses this and that is a reason he does not want you seeing this boy.

Okay then we won't have sex anymore. But what do you expect me to do? just break up with him & never talk to him again then become depressed? because if we break up he already said he's going to the military because theres nothing better for him. and i really don't know what i'm going to do. I've Already thought about Suicide but i dont know yet
and my dad doesn't let my mom be involved at all.

Because your mom thinks it's okay. Suicide over a boy. If you were to do anything so moronic, he would be with another girl in a week. You would be forgotten by everyone except the ones who truly love you.
Suicide is forever, no changing your mind, no waking up and being glad your young and loved. It's a cowards way out. It takes someone with guts to stick around and face life.

Wait a couple of years and if he loves you and you love him and it's meant to be it will happen.

Okay then we won't have sex anymore. But what do you expect me to do? just break up with him & never talk to him again then become depressed? because if we break up he already said he's going to the military because there's nothing better for him. and i really don't know what i'm going to do. I've Already thought about Suicide but i dont know yet
and my dad doesn't let my mom be involved at all.
I'm assuming you are still in school.
What you do is get involved in school, make friends, girls and boys.
If you are having problems with depression you need to be talking to someone about it, you probably need to be talking to someone anyway. Getting wrapped up in a boy is not going to help you.
He even recognizes he needs to do something else with his life, he's not talking about ending it.
Do you have other friends?

You both are young and immature. He can't go into the military at 17 I don't think at least his parents have to sign for him. Does he go to school?
You both need to be having fun with friends not this intense I NEED you stuff.
It would be hard but I think time away from each other would be the best thing for both of you.

I have other friends but if I talk to a boy [AS JUST FRIENDS] like texting or something my dad's always assuming I'm having sex with him or I'm flirting with him or dating him & its not over him its over a lot of things in my life and I said I was THINKING about it. & he's worst than me about this! I was going to break up with him about a week ago and he was about to kill his self then he had to go to the hospital etc, So He's Way Worse than me about it

He Already Asked his Parents they said they would sign him. And I Can't Have Fun My Dad's In The Way

i have other friends but if i talk to a boy [AS JUST FRIENDS] like texting or something my dad's always assuming im having sex with him or im flirting with him or dating him & its not over him its over alot of things in my life and i said i was THINKING about it. & he's worst than me about this! i was gonna break up with him about a week ago and he was about to kill his self then he had to go to the hospital etc,. so He's Way Worse than me about it
Then this boy is not stable and you should not be with him anyway.
You say your father is abusing you, so is this young man. He is manipulating you and that is abuse.
I really think you need to talk to someone, a counselor. You have too many things going on in your life. You need a professional to help you sort things out.

So what do you want me to do? Break up with him? Knowing he's going to throw his life away in the military?

Does you father have reason to suspect you are having sex with other boys? Has this happened before?
I don't think he would mind if you had girl friends.
Your relationship with this boy is too intense and he is not stable.

I agree with everyone else this is a very messed up situation.

At your age you shouldn't NEED a boyfriend. And you don't. Having a relationship at this age is disastrous. You are at an age where your emotions are running wild. You don't know who YOU are yet.

The fact that you two are even thinking about Suicide if you have to break up and not talk to each other screams that loudly. You will have relationships that come and go as you grow up but if suicide is your answer to when they go, You're not ready to be pursuing any.

There is much more you need to learn and see, and there will never be anyone that is worth taking your life over.

I agree with your Dad on this one and he knows you better than we do. Thing is he's been your age before he knows what guys that age are like and is protecting you whether you can see that or not. He is trying to keep you from getting hurt and making mistakes in your life that you cannot get a do-over on.

If he is abusing you then report it. The reason you gave for not reporting it is very disturbing to me. You'd rather be abused than for your boyfriend to get in trouble? You need to put yourself first.

Breaking up with this guy isn't the end of the world. You'll meet a lot of boys in your life that's the whole point of growing up.

So what do you want me to do? Break up with him? knowing he's gonna throw his life away in the military?
Going in to the military is not throwing his life away. He will grow up, he will get mental help if he needs it (which it sounds like he does) He could build a career, do something with his life. He'll have opportunities he probably would not have otherwise. The military has been a life saver for many a young man and woman.
You are not responsible for this boy, you are a child yourself and have enough problems to deal with.
This is a burden you do not need, and I think you know that.

Yes he will throw his life away in the militarty he told me he only wants to go so he can get shot and die if we break up & My dad is the one hurting me so no I don't think he's trying to prevent me from getting hurt. And no he just thinks that if I talk to a guy we'll start having sex like I'm a slut or something. & I've only had sex like 3 times with the same person.

So what do you want me to do? Break up with him? knowing he's gonna throw his life away in the military?

If you continue what you are doing you will both be throwing your lives away.
Is that a good option?

The military sounds like the ideal solution here, it gets him far enough away that you won't wind up pregnant and battered.
It will put him in a situation that forces you to become mature and gives you a taste of reality that could turn him into a man instead of a selfish manipulating bully.

Then you can patiently wait at home and I'll bet dad will let you talk to him until your lips fall off.

And I am forced to say this because you are so wrong.

You are both too young to know what real love is and are too young to be engaging in sex because you don't understand that either.

Print this out and save it. Read it in 5 years and see how foolish and stubborn you are being.

I wish you well.

yes he will throw his life away in the military he told me he only wants to go so he can get shot and die if we break up & My dad is the one hurting me so no i dont think he's trying to prevent me from getting hurt. And no he just thinks that if i talk to a guy we'll start having sex like im a slut or something. & i've only had sex like 3 times with the same person.
You two really have no clue.
By the time this kid would even be ready to go in to a combat situation he would be older and a lot more mature in his thinking.
If your dad is abusing you need to talk to someone about it. This boy's behavior is abusive for sure. He is very manipulative.
Tell your dad or a counselor at school that you need to talk to someone.
You and this young man really need to be away from each other. This relationship is not healthy.

yes he will throw his life away in the militarty he told me he only wants to go so he can get shot and die if we break up & My dad is the one hurting me so no i dont think he's trying to prevent me from getting hurt. And no he just thinks that if i talk to a guy we'll start having sex like im a slut or something. & i've only had sex like 3 times with the same person.

First off, even if your "boyfriend" does go into the military they don't play games there. If he is that mentally unstable as you're making him out to be the military will see that. Joining the military isn't as even as just signing a few forms and you're in. There are a lot of steps to make sure the person joining is doing it for the right reasons and not going to put their other soldiers in any danger.

At his age he is too young to join on his own without his parents. Hopefully, the are a lot wiser than the two of you are with this situation.

Your Dad is being protective of you. You can't see that because you're young and unexperienced. As stated previously, your Dad doesn't want to be a grandfather right now and more importantly he doesn't want you to be a parent right now and having to make the most difficult choice of what you do with the child if you would be pregnant. You're not ready for a relationship let alone the consequences of what could happen!

Saying you had sex only 3 times is HUGE at your age. You're not emotionally or mentally mature enough for the relationship. You think you cannot live without this guy when you can and you will. And you are certainly not emotionally ready enough for what sex brings.

You want to keep saying that your Dad is abusive then make the mature move and report him. Do something about it. Don't let people walk all over you, stand up for yourself.

But when your Dad is saying that you cannot be in this relationship it's not abuse. It's being protective.

Focus on your school life, focus on having friends and having fun. You have all the time in the world to explore other areas of life when you're ready to and can handle the consequences of it.

yes he will throw his life away in the militarty he told me he only wants to go so he can get shot and die if we break up & My dad is the one hurting me so no i dont think he's trying to prevent me from getting hurt. And no he just thinks that if i talk to a guy we'll start having sex like im a slut or something. & i've only had sex like 3 times with the same person.


This is the same guy you were concerned about watching porn and not treating you well before? Why would you even want to have him as a boyfriend? I thought you wanted someone who would treat you well, respect you, and make you feel good about yourself? Don't you think you deserve that? I think you have clung onto this guy because you are unhappy at home and he has shown you some attention.

He is conning you about going into the military and hoping to get shot if you break up with him. Don't fall for his manipulative behavior. I'd be surprised if he even went into the military, but if he did, as was said, it would be the best thing that could happen to him to help him get his life straightened out.

You very well may love him, but that doesn't mean he is good for you. A loving, mature relationship is built on mutual respect. Wanting to help the other person be the best they can be. Supporting them in their dreams and goals, not causing you to feel poorly about yourself, or that you are being compared to the porn he watches. Not being made to feel that you would be responsible if he got hurt or killed because you didn't do what HE wanted you to do. He is selfish and manipulative. He doesn't care about you, he cares about himself and what he wants.

Since you feel he truly loves you, I assume he is doing all that he can to help your life be less complicated? That he is doing all that he can to help you avoid getting into trouble with your father? That he is encouraging you to focus on school, so that you can reach your dreams and your goals to be happy in your life? That he is putting your needs and wants ahead of his own? If not, wake up, he does not truly love you... plain and simple.

Treat yourself better than that. Especially if those around you aren't treating you as they should, all the more reason you have to look out for yourself. Do not run from one abusive relationship into another. Find the strength within yourself to break out of this. Think hard about how you want to be treated in a relationship. How do you want a guy to speak to you? To show you respect? To care about your feelings?

You have already found, as is obvious from this thread and the porn thread, that this guy doesn't do those things. Do not settle for less than you want. The guy who will be that way for you is out there and when you respect yourself, you will find him.

I'm going to jump in here.

1) If you father is taking his anger out on you in terms of physical abuse, you NEED to report it to someone. A school counselor, clergyman, family services, your mother! This man should not have unsupervised custody over you.

2) The fact that you claim to be in love with a boy who has taken advantage of you by having sex with you, that has tried to control you, that watches porn at 16 shows that you are more in love with the idea of being in love then with this boy.

3) You are below the age of consent so this boy committed statutory rape.

4) If this boy is as unstable as you say, the military will catch it and he will never get as far as combat.

5) you need to grow up, end this relationship and find a more stable situation that will teach you what love REALLY is (you haven't a clue) and why you have such low self esteem.

All I have to say is. That alot of these answers are just not right, like the poor girl says she's in love! Dose no one get that, I say that if you guys really do love eachother, then you guys can find a way to make it work. Have you ever tryed to go to a friends house, and use their phones. And what about a cell-phone. I think that if you guys really do like eachother,then myspace really will have to be good enough. :) :o

Umm the only "not right" answer I've seen is yours. The OP SAYS she's in love. Notice the emphasis on says. She started a relationship with this boy when she was 14. Do you really believe she knows what love is? I certainly don't. If they really loved each other, the could set the relationship aside until they were older and could resume it without having to worry about parental interference.

You are, according to your other questions that you have posted, frustrated that your boyfriend doesn't want to have MORE sex. You are the sexually aggressive one, pressuring him for sex.

You think there is something wrong with him not wanting more sex with you, because he uses porn, and you are jealous of that from what you said in your own words.

You are underage anyway.

I don't believe for one minute that you aren't a handful for both your parents, and I don't believe for one second that if your father cares enough about you to try to keep you safe, you are vindictive and arrogant enough to turn around and cause big trouble for him by saying he abuses you.

I guess that threat, or using that threat is always in the back of your mind. That you have not reported the abuse to any person in authority- family Doctor, school counsellor, pastor, relative, a friends parents, etc. indicates to me, that you are full of baloney. I don't buy it for a second.

You only brought up the 'abuse' to bolster your argument of needing this boy in your life- implicating somehow that he is some sort of saviour? You need him, not the other way around, from what I've read.

You probably use the sex, to keep him. You know that if you denied him sex, and put some limits on your relationship with him, he'd send you packing.

If you were to come clean about the abuse, and put the cards on the table, you know there would be very little to substantiate it, and it would also put you under the microscope as well, and you don't want that now do you. It's called accountability. Part of growing up, and maturing. If you were to walk into any emergency department with bruises that resulted from your father punching you, you know damn well what would happen. You choose not to back up what you say.

That you don't step up, means you do not have any credibility in my eyes. You are a coward, and a selfish person. You put your needs above everybody else's, and refuse to follow any rules. I suspect your father is barely hanging on keeping you under control.

It is a shame that you are so sneaky and underhanded, to keep this relationship with the boyfriend going, when clearly you are making very bad choices.

It is also alarming that you are so sexually active. For some reason you think that sex is the key to keeping this boyfriend. You also think, correctly, that if your father were to be charged with assault, that he could go after your boyfriend, because you are underage. You don't want to push that envelope for obvious reasons.

So, keep your lies straight.

Try your best to realize that you are not thinking clearly, and in fact, doing yourself harm, and putting yourself at risk. Not to mention if you carry on this way, you are clearly heading down the path to being a parent to a child, when you are a child yourself.

And then what do you expect your parents to do? Support you? Babysit while you go to school? Pay for diapers and formula? Not a prospect any parent would welcome, and you know that by your reckless behaviour, you are heading down that slippery slope.

You are not an animal who cannot control yourself. You CAN control yourself. You can say no to sex, you can not pressure your boyfriend into having MORE sex, and you can avoid a lot of heartache for both your parents, by trying to be more responsible, and less demanding like some sort of princess.

Give your head a shake here. Drop the boyfriend, and hold off on sex until you have SOME idea of what a relationship is first.

If you are so out of control, that you cannot control yourself, please seek counselling to help put you out of harms' way.

Society does not need to support yet another baby, from a teenager who, for the sake of a few sane moments, could have made better choices.

I think she is a confused 15 year old who has gotten into things she does not understand.
This boy from what I read has been her only sexual partner and they have had sex three times. She wanted more, he doesn't. He watches porn and she wants to shave herself the way the porn stars do. She wants to masturbate, he tells her not to because he says it will make her loose.
These are obviously kids with no clue!

She apparently tried to break up with him once and he tried to kill himself, has threatened to go into the military if she leaves him.
These are both disturbed kids who don't need to be with each other and can use some counseling.

As far as her dad, I don't know. He is raising her alone, has been since she was two. I don't think he abuses her but then again her boyfriend does by manipulating her. This whole thing is very sad.

She needs help and so does the boyfriend.
Young teens should not be engaging in sex, they don't know what they are doing and they are manipulating each other's lives and they don't even know it.

I hope this young lady stays away from this boy and I hope she gets some counseling.

Okay So Hope You People are Happy, I Broke Up With Him.

That's good thing. Now I hope you will get yourself some help.

How is it a good thing? Now I'm sad.

All we want is what best for you. Did you not understand what we have been trying to tell you? Yes you will be sad for a bit, But this is a good thing for your future.

Soo. In You Guys Opinion The Advice MIGHT have helped to Me What it helped was, Him go to the military soon & Me be a depressed wreck. But Even Though The Advice only Got me sad, Still Thanks For All The help.

What did he say when you told him goodbye?

He said that he understands because he's older and basically almost an adult. And that he's going to the military to become more resobcible and etc,

He really said that, huh?

What's "resobcible"?

You ARE going to work on your spelling and grammar and punctuation now, aren't you? I'll help, if you want me to.

Yup but I'm still sad, & I think you know what I meant, and I was in a rush that's why I typed it wrong.

Now that you're not in a rush, can you spell it correctly?

Do you realize that you will now have free time to learn how to cook and bake, to do your homework correctly, to keep your room clean, and to help us here with other teens and their problems?? YAY!!

Responsible. & I was doing all that stuff perfectly Fine When I was Dating him. Now I'm not even in the mood really all I want to do is listen to music and draw/write.

What you're doing sounds perfectly fine and useful. Plus, school will be starting soon. Are you ready with new clothes and school supplies?

Our school has a pretty stupid dress code, we can only wear white/Blue/Kaki/ Shirts
& White/Black/Kaki/Blue Jeans and it can't have any decorations. But yea I got school supplies

That dress code sure saves money for families! (Pssst, it's khaki -- tricky little "h" in there.)

When does school start? You'll be a sophomore?

yea (: I always have troubles with that word =/
& sophomore, I got to do 10th grade Again cause I failed the finals (math)

yea (: i always have troubles with that word =/
& sophomore, i gotta do 10th grade Again cause i failed the finals (math)
Algebra? Geometry?

All of it

Plenty of people here who could help you out with your math if you need it!. :)

It is sad when you breakup... give yourself some time, draw, write, listen to music. When you have had some time to think about the whole situation, and ask yourself if you were being treated how you would like to be, you will likely think "not really".

It was a learning experience... no doubt you will have some more along the way to help with finding out what you will allow and want from some one who claims to care about you. That is what dating and early relationships are all about.

As you write, make a list of what are important characteristics in a guy for you. What will be OK and what won't.

Be sure to come back and let us know how things are going for you!

Angel, things always seem worse than they really are in the "teen" years. That's just the way it is. I can tell you one thing. That life does indeed go on. You'll have several boyfriends before you settle down and get married. Most of us have to have the good with the bad, the ups with the downs. That's what makes us stronger.

If your father is abusing you, then by all means, please get help. Tell someone.

And never, ever, entertain the thought of taking your own life. Suicide is for quitters.

Someone said that if you killed yourself, that this guy would have a new girlfriend at the end of the week. I agree.

You'll be fine, and so will he.

I hope that you'll be happy soon.

Okayy So Far things Are Worse. His Friend Told me That His Parents Caught I'm Trying To Overdose 3 Times Already And he Keeps Saying he Doesn't Want Another Girl Just Me, So Now What Do I Do? (Ignoring It IS NOT an option)

He's tried to overdose three times since last night?

The military definitely won't take him.

He needs to get into counseling immediately. And now I have absolutely no doubts that you should have nothing to do with him.

Okay So Far things Are Worse. His Friend Told me That His Parents Caught im Trying To Overdose 3 Times Already And he Keeps Saying he Doesn't Want Another Girl Just Me, So Now What Do i Do? (Ignoring It IS NOT an option)
Are you sure your friend is not exaggerating? If he has tried three times already, I'm sure his is hospitalized now.
If she is not, he has problems you can do nothing about. He needs professional help and you need to stay away from him. If he is a danger to himself he could also be a danger to you. This is something way beyond you.
You need to be concentrating on school not this boy. This problem is his parents to deal with.

Okayy So Far things Are Worse. His Friend Told me That His Parents Caught im Trying To Overdose 3 Times Already And he Keeps Saying he Doesn't Want Another Girl Just Me, So Now What Do i Do? (Ignoring It IS NOT an option)

Look into cloning?

I apologize for that.

Bij, I think there is some exaggeration going on here.

If I caught my son trying to overdose I would not be letting him out my reach until I was satisfied he would be safe. And I'm not easily satisfied.

And if by some miracle he managed to try it again in the same night, we would be on our way to the Crisis center.

I cannot believe his parents would give him an opportunity to try it again
AND then a third time??

What we have here is a failure to communicate...
Someone is not telling you how it really is or you may be twisting the truth a little in order to get an answer you are happier with.

I hope you can find a safe and sane answer to this. I wish you well

If this is true, he would be in the hospital on the psych floor. I am sorry if this is the case, and I agree, all the more reason to cut your ties with him. However, I also don't believe this is the truth. If it's all a big story to make you feel sorry for him... he has some very real problems. Stay away!

To be honest, I'm not even sure I believe you actually broke up with him.

Get yourself sorted out... stay away from guys for awhile... focus on school... clean your act up, or you stand a very good chance of heading down a road you don't want to be on.

Whether you are serious or just fooling around here, these are some problems.
You need to get a hold of yourself. None of this, if true is anything to joke or exaggerate about.
I'm understanding why your father wants you to leave this boy alone. You did poorly in school and there is way too much drama going on here.

Please understand that no one here is taking the situation of suicide or self-harm lightly. It is just the facts do not add up.

He is being manipulative. Whether the situation is true or not he is using his attempts at self harm to control you and make you stay with him. Either way, he is very troubled and in need of help that you cannot provide for him. At this point I am not even sure if his parents can provide it for him. They need to get him to a center that is trained and educated on this subject to help him.

This just further proves that you do not belong in a relationship with him. It will only progress further down the road that any time things go wrong he will throw out "if you leave me I'll kill myself" and my fear based on the way you're reacting to everything so far is that you will buy what he says and continue in a volatile relationship.

We actually care about you, despite what you may think. If we didn't care one bit about you we'd be here telling you what you wanted to hear instead of what you NEED to hear. I think I can safely say that we all want what is best for you and hope to see you succeed. Not get stuck in a situation that will hurt you or further bring you down.

This situation is way too much for you to handle and it's one that you need to stay away from. I know you feel like you love this guy but sometimes the best thing to do for someone you love is to step away and allow themselves to get the help they need.

Not in a "Rude" Way but If You Don't Believe me About Me breaking up with him I Honestly Don't Care, Just Don't Give me Advice if Your Not Going to Believe me. & His Parents Basically think of him as a Screw up. Not in a Mean Way But his life pretty much sucks, They've Always Been Kind of Poor. So They Really Don't Care Which Is Another Reason Why I Really Wanted To Stay With Him, Everyone In His Life [Family/friends/ExGf's] Gave Up On Him & I Promised I Wouldn't so Now I Feel Like a Liar & "Female Dog" & My Grades Are All Straight A's & B's and Always Have Been Except For in Math, Even Before I Met Him I Started Messing Up In Math I Even Have Summer School/Tutors/Extra Classes I Take Notes & Pay Attention I Think I Have Short Term Memory Loss Because I Always Forget How To Do Something That Has To Do With Math.

No matter what his parents feel about him, if he has committed suicide, he would be committed into a hospital. That's the way it works.
This boy is manipulating you. This is how he keeps you, controls you. This is not a healthy relationship to be in.
If you don't listen to anything, listen to this; Leave this boy alone. He is bad news. You have a lot going for you, don't throw it away on this boy. He needs treatment and he cannot get it from you.

I haven't talked to him since we broke up.

I know it will be hard, but leave it that way.
No contact. When you need to talk and vent, come here.

All I have to say is. That alot of these answers are just not right, like the poor girl says she's in love! Dose no one get that, I say that if you guys really do love eachother, then you guys can find a way to make it work. Have you ever tryed to go to a friends house, and use their phones. And what about a cell-phone. I think that if you guys really do like eachother,then myspace really will have to be good enough. :) :o

It would appear you three jumped from the age of three to adults...
None of you remember what it as like to be 15??
She is turning 16 soon, age of concent in most places around the world
And in most states is 16 years of age...
And with the boyfriend only being a year or so older
I don't see any judge prosecuting the boyfriend.

You all are only looking at a number
Your not looking at the fact they are in love
Your not considering that maybe this coulpe
Are more mature than your average 16 year old
And ignoring the fact they are being responsible
And using protection...
The chances of her getting pregnant while uing a
Condom properly is less than you being in a car crash
Do you walk everywhere just to be more responsible?
I don't think so...

God look don't get me wwrong your dad knows best he may have been like this boy and did what his doing he is probably lying to you saying you're the one when he could be spreading other girls legs like tom **** and harry this is one of many loves you will be in you have a long life ahead of you there is many many more heart break to ewpirience

your not considering that maybe this coulpe
are more mature than your average 16 year old
and ignoring the fact they are being responsible
and using protection
If you read the entire thread, maturity is NOT one of their strong points. Nothing has been said about condoms or having responsible sex. The very fact that she's underage and they had sex screams immaturity!

it would appear you three jumped from the age of three to adults....
none of you remember what it as like to be 15????
she is turning 16 soon, age of concent in most places around the world
and in most states is 16 years of age...
and with the bf only being a year or so older
i dont see any judge prosecuting the bf.

you all are only looking at a number
your not looking at the fact they are inlove
your not considering that maybe this coulpe
are more mature than your average 16 year old
and ignoring the fact they are being responsible
and using protection...
the chances of her getting pregnant while uing a
condom properly is less than you being in a car crash
do you walk everywhere just to be more responsible?
i dont think so....

Omqq ThankkYou! That's Kind of Why I Didn't want to break up with him, we Know that even if we use protection I can still get pregnant & Or Catch a disease IF HE HAD ONE. & Seriously Some of you are making him seem like a perv, okay I know in the post where I thoguth he wasn't enough for me he SOUNDED like one but he's really not remember I WANTED SEX MORE THAN HE DID. Like Nympho Status or something.

none of you remember what it as like to be 15??

I remember it all too clearly. I thought I was in love too, in fact I swore I was. Turns out that everyone over the age of 30 that told me I wasn't, they were right. Too bad I didn't learn that before I jumped into bed with him. Would have been nice if I was mature enough to listen to people smarter than me.


she is turning 16 soon, age of concent in most places around the world
And in most states is 16 years of age...
And with the boyfriend only being a year or so older
I don't see any judge prosecuting the boyfriend.

Oh, well, if consent is all we're worrying about than sure, go for it. You see I was worried about pregnancy, disease, a 16 year old on welfare raising a child by herself, because statistically, if she gets knocked up, he's not going to be hanging around. He'll do the "mature" thing and save his own a$$.


you all are only looking at a number
Your not looking at the fact they are in love

They don't know what being in love means. They're in lust. That's what happens at 15. Let me guess, you're 15 too, aren't you?


your not considering that maybe this coulpe
Are more mature than your average 16 year old

How can we consider that when every single one of her posts shows how immature she is?


and ignoring the fact they are being responsible
And using protection...
The chances of her getting pregnant while uing a
Condom properly is less than you being in a car crash

In my life I've been in 3 car crashes. No form of birth control is 100% effective. There are people on this site that used 3 forms of birth control at the same time and still became pregnant. At least with cars you have insurance, with sex, you don't.


do you walk everywhere just to be more responsible?
I don't think so...

Of course not, but I'd never let my kids drive until they're old enough and can afford to pay for their own car, gas, and insurance. So if she can't afford a child, she shouldn't have sex.

I remember it all too clearly. I thought I was in love too, in fact I swore I was. Turns out that everyone over the age of 30 that told me I wasn't, they were right. Too bad I didn't learn that before I jumped into bed with him. Woulda been nice if I was mature enough to listen to people smarter than me.



Oh, well, if consent is all we're worrying about than sure, go for it. You see I was worried about pregnancy, disease, a 16 year old on welfare raising a child by herself, because statistically, if she gets knocked up, he's not going to be hanging around. He'll do the "mature" thing and save his own a$$.



They don't know what being in love means. They're in lust. That's what happens at 15. Let me guess, you're 15 too, aren't you?



How can we consider that when every single one of her posts shows how immature she is?



In my life I've been in 3 car crashes. No form of birth control is 100% effective. There are people on this site that used 3 forms of birth control at the same time and still became pregnant. At least with cars you have insurance, with sex, you don't.



Of course not, but I'd never let my kids drive until they're old enough and can afford to pay for their own car, gas, and insurance. So if she can't afford a child, she shouldn't have sex.

I have to say you do brig up some good points such as him just taking off..
As for me being 15, no... I'm older
Just shortly after turning 16 I actually WAS in love believe it or not
And I was with her for 6 years...
And if you knew the hell she put me through
I'm sure you would agree that either one...
I'm just completely stupid lol, or I was in love
Or perhaps both :p
But point is I KNOW I feel in love at that age
And if I can, I'm sure others can as well...

i have to say you do brig up some good points such as him just taking off..
as for me being 15, no... im older
just shortly after turning 16 i actually WAS inlove believe it or not
and i was with her for 6 years...
and if you knew the hell she put me through
im sure you would agree that either one...
im just completely stupid lol, or i was inlove
or perhaps both :p
but point is i KNOW i feel inlove at that age
and if i can, im sure others can aswell....

But love doesn't have to include sex, and I'm sure you can agree that at 15, sex is a bad idea.

If they're in love than sex can wait, until they're old enough and responsible enough to take care of a child. Sex is a huge responsibility and at 15, you're just not ready for it, no matter how mature you think you are.

Bijiou... I apologize for my wondering whether you actually broke up, but the advice remains the same regardless. You are not responsible for him or for what he does. He makes his own choices, as you have seen with his watching porn knowing how you feel about it.
If he truly did try to kill himself, he would be in hospital right now.

I know you feel you are in love, and you very well may be, but he isn't. True love does not manipulate, it does not need to go to extremes to hold onto someone, it does not try to make someone feel badly or guilty.

Look at it this way, if you stayed with him what would change? Is he going to stop looking at the porn? Would you magically stop feeling compared to it or not enough for him? Would he not threaten to harm himself if you wanted to break it off again?

Never, ever go into, or stay in, a relationship and think you are going to change someone. Almost always, you will be very much disappointed, frustrated, and hurt. He would only change if he wanted to.

There are so many guys out there who won't try to make you feel guilty so that you stay with them and who will treat you with respect and make you feel good about yourself.

As others have said, if we didn't care, we wouldn't be saying anything.

it would appear you three jumped from the age of three to adults....
none of you remember what it as like to be 15????
she is turning 16 soon, age of consent in most places around the world
and in most states is 16 years of age...
and with the bf only being a year or so older
i dont see any judge prosecuting the bf.

you all are only looking at a number
your not looking at the fact they are in love
your not considering that maybe this couple
are more mature than your average 16 year old
and ignoring the fact they are being responsible
and using protection...
the chances of her getting pregnant while using a
condom properly is less than you being in a car crash
do you walk everywhere just to be more responsible?
i dont think so....

It would appear that you are only looking at the "I'm 15 and in love" part of this.
Have you read her other threads? Have you read this one in it's entirety?

This is not just about love, but a young girl who is involved with a young man who is clearly not stable or good for her. Young girl who broke up with him once and he tried to kill himself. This a relationship that borders on obsession and operates by manipulation.

I remember what it's like to be 15 and because I do I can understand the feelings she has, but because I am older I also can see the relationship is dysfunctional at best.
Beside that, her father has forbidden this relationship and I am not about to tell her to go against the wishes if her father.

it would appear you three jumped from the age of three to adults....
none of you remember what it as like to be 15????
she is turning 16 soon, age of concent in most places around the world
and in most states is 16 years of age...
and with the bf only being a year or so older
i dont see any judge prosecuting the bf.

you all are only looking at a number
your not looking at the fact they are inlove
your not considering that maybe this coulpe
are more mature than your average 16 year old
and ignoring the fact they are being responsible
and using protection...
the chances of her getting pregnant while uing a
condom properly is less than you being in a car crash
do you walk everywhere just to be more responsible?
i dont think so....

I'm also going to comment here. You have obviously not looked at the whole thread if you think we are only looking at a number. As noted, there are a number of factors involved here. As to the maturity level there are several clues showing their maturity level is not high. You are also assuming it's a "fact" that they are in love. At 15 one really can't make that assumption.

Finally, yes some forms of protection are very reliable, but none are 100%. And it only takes that small percentage to ruin several lives.

But we only had sex 3 times, & I didn't get pregnant and before I broke up with him we already said we wouldn't until later, So noo we weren't "In Lust" if we were we would have broken up A LONG time ago & You Make it seem like No guy at the age of 16 can be in love and their just going to have sex with the girl then if she gets pregnant leave her, not every 16 year old guy in the world is like that.

if she gets pregnant leave her, not every 16 year old guy in the world is like that.
You said he tried three times to "leave" this world which includes you. That's a cowardly act. If he loved you, he'd stick around and wait it out or fight for the right to see you by improving himself and his prospects. That would be a sign of maturity.

Yea but not break up with me he wouldn't really take enough pills to do it anyway I already know he wouldn't. I "tested" him before to see if he would really do it but he's scared to go to hell if he kills himself. Which I hate when he talks about that stuff

Something else to point... if you want me to add some math in this, there is a section of math called probability in statistics.

Let me explain. Let's say, the probability of getting pregnant using condoms is very small... like 0.01. There is something called binomial distribution which deals with such probabilities.

I will spare you the math, but you will see that with a constant small probability (ie 0.01), the probability that the event occurs (ie you get pregnant) increases each time you make the event occur. You were lucky on the first three times... but the more you try, the more you are prone to become pregnant, and that, I'm sure your dad would not want you to be. Is your boyfriend ready to rear a child and supply the financial support?

He himself is in a bad condition. He's unstable. How would he get a proper job? Are you ready to become a mother? Math is a must in most of the jobs that exist. If you do poorly in math, it should be your priority. What are the other subjects you study? If you're doing the sciences, you'll see that without math, you won't be able to score properly in those subjects. In design, the technical side, you need some strong basics in math. What will happen if you become an architect, and the house or building that you make had miscalculations and it shatters into pieces? You'll be putting people in danger, and you will most certainly not get any more clients. Nothing much is required to lose a job and by the same time, lose your life.

Prepare for your future NOW. You've been told several times that you need to study now, and that sex can wait. Do you know something about overpopulation? The world's population is getting into the 6.8 billions. What if everybody was looking into sex as soon as they thought they could? You can say that's it's because of others... but what about you? Will you choose to be among THEM?

PS. If you need help in math, me and other members will be glad to help you. You can ask here (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mathematics/), but show us what you tried to solve the math problem first.

I haven't done history yet, I have that starting this year. & I have
Math-F
Reading-A
Art-A
Science-B
P.E-A
Biology-A
Extra Math-F
Extra Math2-F

Yea but not break up with me he wouldn't really take enough pills to do it anyway i already know he wouldn't. i "tested" him before to see if he would really do it but he's scared to go to hell if he kills himself. Which i hate when he talks about that stuff

Then why were you saying he tried to kill himself if you know he wouldn't do it?
This kind of behavior is childish and manipulative.

Because, he was trying to but I know he's scared to

i haven't done history yet, i have that starting this year. & i have
Math-F
Reading-A
Art-A
Science-B
P.E-A
Biology-A
Extra Math-F
Extra Math2-F

Well, the B in science explains it. I would like to know something though. What do you exactly do in science?

Because, from what I know, the 3 main parts of science that are usually called pure science that is taught are biology, chemistry and physics and I find it strange that your system is such that science and biology are considered apart. They should either be considered as one, or totally separated.

I really don't know why their seprate but in science (since I last went to school) we weren't really doing nothing but taking notes for finals and in Bio it was basically like Sex Ed or something.

i haven't done history yet, i have that starting this year. & i have
Math-F
Reading-A
Art-A
Science-B
P.E-A
Biology-A
Extra Math-F
Extra Math2-F

You need to work on schooling before you concern yourself with the experience of love, boyfriends, and a sex life. Without taking your education seriously you will end up nowhere, looking back on your life wondering where you went wrong.

There will be plenty of times to come for you to find a boyfriend, eventually settle down, and have a family. But for you that time is not now and it's especially not with this person.

The things people are telling you are not things they're just pulling out of the head to make it sound good. We all on here have had experiences, lessons, and have learned from them. What's great about learning life lessons is not what we ourselves get from them but the knowledge that we can also pass on to others to help them out or prevent them from making the same bad choices we did.

These people have been there.

You nor your "boyfriend" hold the knowledge or maturity at this time to be together or to work together to fix what is going on. Your "boyfriend" needs more help than you can give him. He has some mental issues going on that CAN be fixed. But not by someone that is the same age and has some issues of her own.

I know you feel like this is love but it's just not. Keep yourself occupied by making friends right now but only friends. Enjoy what you have of your years before you need to face the real world. Look into places like Big Brother/Big Sister to see if you can be enrolled as a child through to program and get some help with areas in your life by someone who has been there but won't seem like it's an adult telling you what to do.

Work on your schooling, look into to a tutor, or as suggested try the math section of this site. You will get passed this situation and some day look back on it and realize just how juvenile and self-destructive it is. This is not all there is to life.

i really don't know why their seprate but in science (since i last went to school) we weren't really doing nothing but taking notes for finals and in Bio it was basically like Sex Ed or something.

Wait... do you mean you got an A in Sex Ed and still don't know the risks you are taking in your life?

because, he was trying to but i know he's scared to
He needs professional help.

Yes I got an A in sex Ed & I do know the risk. If I get pregnant at this age it'll ruin my whole life I could be out on the streets with a baby no food/water and nothing to support us. I Know the risk that COULD HAVE happened that DID NOT happen.

You already forgot what I told you it seems... I'll repeat myself. What did not happen might not happen the next time... but what IF it had happened? You seem to think that since it didn't happen the first, nor the second and nor the third time, you're safe. I told you already that the more try, the more likely it'll happen.

Nooo I don't think that I know that it doesn't matter if it's the last time ever it can still happen. It doesn't matter how many times it is it can still happen, so no I don't think that

So you won't have sex again unless you are financially stable, in a permanent relationship, and eager to have a baby?

I will just not really "sex" as in a penis in a vagina I'll do it other ways I guess.

You still want to guard yourself against disease. You can get herpes from oral sex and anal sex.
You need to be careful.

I Know, I don't plan to do it anytime soon anyway, I don't even have a boyfriend. But even if I do get one, we won't be doing any of that the 1st few months, that's how I get to know if they really want to be with me or if their using me

That is smart thinking.
Use this time to concentrate on your studies. Hang out with your friends, leave dating and boy friends alone for a while.
You have plenty of time.

I Am, but the problem with that is, I have more friends that are guys than girls, I Don't know why but I don't get along with girls much and my dad thinks that if I hangout with a guy I'm going to have sex wit him. But Yeea I'm not even focused on friends I'm focused on my grades so I can go to colleague and major in Writing if they have that

I can understand that. My daughter when she was your age had more male friends than female.
Have you tried talking to your dad about this? Not in anger just a chat.

I have a feeling you're going to be OK

Yea I tried to explain to him that its hard for me to get along with girls a lot & way easier to get along with guys and he said "still no only girls i don't need you to lie to me i know you've probly thought about sleeping with one." I try a lot every now & then though.

Well it's too bad he does not understand that it is possible to have guy friends.
You will be OK though. Just hang in there.

Okay, well can I major in colleague at writing?

You can if you work hard, but you better get a handle on that spelling of yours :)

Okay! I always spell wrong if it's on something like this or myspace/facebook etc, But if it's something importantt for skool or a Job or something then I'll do it properly

My son did. His degree is called a Bachelor of Science, English-Writing. Colleges call it different things.

There's a book at your local public library that lists all the colleges that excel in this kind of program, although many colleges have an English-Writing or Creative Writing degree and don't advertise it.

So you can really spell better than you do here? Try us out and spell a few posts correctly.

What's wrong with the title of this thread? "Me and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship and we're not aloud to talk"

Okay then I think I can. What words do you want me to spell? Or do you just want me to spell correctly?

Okay! i always spell wrong if it's on something like this or myspace/facebook etc,. but if it's something important for school or a Job or something then i'll do it properly
You should do it properly everywhere. You develop a habit of misspelling, it will be hard to break.
I remember telling this to my daughter. I would correct her grammar and she'd say, I only talk this way with my friends. I told her you are developing a habit of poor speech and it will seep out at any time, any place. Practice good grammar and good spelling all of the time.

Okay then.

Yyyyaaaayyyyy!!

Haha(:
.

What do you like to write? Short stories? Essays about things you experience? Poetry?

I like writing stories, usually I only go to chapters 50-60 & post it on Quizilla, I like writing Essays on certain subjects. & I LOVE poetry, but I'm not good at writing poems about happy things.

Then write poetry about sad things. When my son was your age, his poetry was about death and destruction. The poems were good, but very dark. That changed as he matured and as his life got to be more interesting.

Yeah, that's how my poems are and my dad thinks I'm going goth or something.

Every 15 y/o I've ever known who wrote poetry wrote dark poetry. It must be something at that age.

Tell your dad that a published writer (me) says that's very common.

Okay well I'm not at home right now but okay!

We'd love to read one of your poems, if you're willing to post it here.

Okay, Well do I post in a new thread thing or watever it's called? Or just post it in this little box thing?

How about posting it in the Writing category? Be sure to tell us here when you've done that.

I Did.

Yay! I'll go look now.

Do you like to write about different topics? Journalism is another subject you could study in college that would give you many opportunities. You could write for magazines, newspapers, online publications, etc..

In stories? Yea

in stories? yea

Look at all the articles and stories you might read in different magazines. A compilation of short stories for different publications. If you enjoy and have a talent for writing, you could do that... :)