I am in High school grade 11 last year, in my school students are in groups which they stay on their high school years(that mean that I will take class with the same people all my high school years). I made friends with some girls from my group and we start fine having fun and everything. The time went passsing and I end falling in love with this girl. She is everything I like on girls pretty, sarcastic, witty, smart and listen etc... The thing is that I find out she is bisexual, and more inclined to girl, almost lebian. I was cool about it, I love her so I really don't mind. After some time my friends decided to confess secrets you know, and I promise to them that I will say who I like and I promise to her that she will know first. It was my turn and I say it to her in the ear. She was all red and nervous and for a momment I thought she like me back( she never say nothing about it again I was waiting for a answer and she just didn't say anything, I didn't want to look desesperate so I just wait she never told me). The thing is that is later reaveal that she like my best friend ( who is a girl) my best friend say she is not lesbian and it ended there. My best friend confess to me that she like my other best friend ( who is a guy) and I thought cool my best friends are going to become a couple. 2 week later I find out that my best friend ( the girl) is going out with the girl I like. I was schocked, I ask her how it happends and she said that the girl I like ask her to be her out on Facebook. I ask her what did you think when that happened? She say nothing I just say yes. I was confuse and angry I mean( you were in love with my best friend(the guy) and rejected the girl I like, and out of nowhere you just simply said yes?) I was not angry at the fact that my bestfriend(girl) was going out with the girl I like. More about the fact how my best friend(girl) did things. I found myself in bad position because my bestfriend(girl) and the girl I like, were all lovey dovey in front of me( I was uncorfomtable). I thought why should I be friend(girl) with someone who don't care about my feelings enough to think about me when she is going to answer yes to the proposal of the girl I like and the girl I like don't care about my feeling enough for her just to answer yes or no. So I decided that they were bad friends and I stop haging with them. At firs they came asking why I was been so aloof with them and everything I just say that I didn't know how to react in that position and I needed time. I haven't talk much with them. I started hanging with other people having fun, making myself busy to forget, I did well . The problem that a new year starter and I am in the same group with them so is hard to keep distance. The problem is that I'm starting to have doubt about my decisions and I need someone opinion of what should I do now? (I still have a little feeling for the girl I like)should I talk to them or keep the distance? Forget everything that have happened what should I do? I need someone opinion on this.( I never talk this with someone)

You so have to let this go.. she does not want you... her intentions are very clear... you are not going to somehow magically change her choice in sexuality.. she doesn't want to be with you.. so find a new interest and stay please don't try to pursue this girl anymore... its pointless and a waste of time

you so have to let this go..she does not want you...her intentions are very clear...you are not going to somehow magically change her choice in sexuality..she doesnt want to be with you..so find a new interest and stay please dont try to persue this girl anymore...its pointless and a waste of time

Im not trying to make her my girlfriend or my lover. Is just that some time ago I was friends with them and I was wondering if it would a good idea to be friends again nothing more. Im not that pathetic to go and try to change her or anything like that.

You keep doing what your doing with your new friends, and forget the old ones. They are who they are, and I doubt you knew the truth about your best friend, she likes girls, just never told you. I would be shocked too, to tell the truth, but once the shock wears off, I would forget it, and go about my own business.

Agreed... just throw it in the bag and go on... dont even worry about it..

Ok I will do that, thanks for the help