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reflectgrl2
Aug 10, 2010, 07:36 PM
My parents recently made me break up with my boyfriend. They said he is not good for me. I am madly in love with this boy. We have been dating over a year now and its not fair that I had to get rid of him. What should I do to get over him. Because at the same time, the one I love has been ignoring me. I know its unhealthy to text or call him, but at the same time I just can't seem to keep my hand away from the phone! Its so hard, please help me!

kctiger
Aug 11, 2010, 06:03 AM
Easiest way to get over someone else is to immerse yourself in life. Find hobbies, activities and most of all just be social and do things you like. When you have a life that you can enjoy, things get a lot easier to deal with. I know you are young so it may limit at first what you can and can't do, but I'm sure you can find things to occupy your mind and your time. Kudos to you as well for not texting or calling him. Very good self control!

It's a cliché thing that everyone will tell you. You're young and you just can't see how you'll ever get over this, but you'll move on and be happy again. People told me the same thing... I just know now that it is the truth.

Devorameira
Aug 11, 2010, 06:27 AM
kctiger really said it all. You got to slap that hand every time you start to call or text him.

Go out with your friends, read, write down your feelings (and throw them away), and just quit dwelling on him.

lickemlolly
Aug 11, 2010, 09:00 AM
You could start by deleting his number out of your phone... and like the others said get busy in life... do other things to keep yourself occupied.. go to the movies the beach... skating bowling sports whatever it is and stop texting him!!

hunnypooh97
Aug 11, 2010, 10:49 AM
U need to find something else to do.. get away from the phone.. its hard right now.. but u will get over it..