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love15
Aug 10, 2010, 01:27 AM
Should you stay with the boyfriend I have now I love him and we"ve been going out four months. But I meet this new guy I like him to. I don't know if my boyfriend is the one to choose.
martinizing2
Aug 10, 2010, 01:33 AM
How old are you?
This question would be better answered knowing your age.
lickemlolly
Aug 10, 2010, 06:01 AM
Yes OP how old are you?
talaniman
Aug 10, 2010, 07:20 AM
I assume your 15, by your user name.
You already have a boyfriend, so deal with that and if you want to mess around with some one else tell the boyfriend its over, BEFORE you start messing around.
Shaydie
Aug 13, 2010, 09:58 AM
Now is not the time to be in a committed relationship with someone if there is something else catching your attention. I suggest being honest and going after what you want. If you end up with neither of them, then you are just opening the door for something else. Surprises are the best part of life!
IWantToHelp
Aug 14, 2010, 04:12 PM
You say you 'love' your current boyfriend, so stay with him... if you've been with him for 4 months then you're obviously getting to know each other and you're comfortable with each other. What you have to ask yourself is, is it really worth giving up what I have now to get involved with another guy, who I don't know that well and who may not even want a proper relationship?
FoxCash
Aug 14, 2010, 04:22 PM
Honestly, if you have to ask a question like this you shouldn't be with either of them.
It sounds like you do not know what you want and that most has a lot to do with your age, which is okay but you should not be involving other people into relationships with you when you have desires to bounce around each time you find someone new you "like".
It's not fair to your current boyfriend to be with you when your mind is openly wandering around. Let him go before he gets further involved and hurt. Let yourself explore who you are and soon you'll figure out what is important in relationships, what you're looking for and what the difference is between being friends with someone and not being in a relationship as well.
If you let this current guy go I would not get into a relationship with the other person involved. The results will be the same once you are out and find someone else you "like".