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skilvr
Aug 9, 2010, 07:43 PM
After 6 years I moved back to make things permanent, hit our first bump, we broke up, he began seeing a girl with a scandalous past, 4 months now. He only meets her never has only picked her up once to take her to a pool party, otherwise meets her at bars or parties. He will not use her name with myself nor his family. His actions/words are sending mixed messages.
What might his behavior suggest?

Kitkat22
Aug 9, 2010, 07:59 PM
His behavior suggest he is wanting his freedom. He has moved on and you should too.

martinizing2
Aug 9, 2010, 09:10 PM
His actions say he is broken up and moving on.
That is what you should do also. Waiting around hoping is not a good thing to do.
You should stop all contact with him. No phone calls no texts nothing.

I would recommend you get an attorney. That will keep you from being played or lied to by him.

You need to drop him and begin to heal.
Go out with friends or do whatever you can to keep your mind off this.


I wish you well

talaniman
Aug 10, 2010, 07:10 AM
You only have his side of things but that's enough to know to leave him alone. He ain't the one, and doesn't want to be.

Devorameira
Aug 10, 2010, 07:38 AM
I am sorry about the breakup, but before you can move on you need to accept the reality of your situation. You broke up, it’s over. Let reality sink in.

Stop concerning yourself with anything he says or does... it's not your business or concern anymore.

Respect that this chapter of your life has closed and tell yourself that you’re going to have to get over it and move on. It didn’t work out and it probably wasn’t meant to be. Accept that fact and move on