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hfrore
Aug 8, 2010, 01:55 AM
Well I had sex with my boyfriend(unprotected) about a month ago,
I have been feeling sick morning sickness and other symptoms.
I just turned 15 about 3 weeks ago! I don't know what to do I am very scared to tell my mom. I don't know what she will say,all the talks she has been giving me and I just do it:/
Well the weird thing is yesterday I bled a little. But what can it be?my period?
I'm very confused.only one person know about this,my best friend I know she won't tell anyone and I trust her. Once I told her she broke down crying I did too:/
She said she will be there for me the whole time and I know she will.

And the guy I'm with knows about this,he assured me he would be there for me,but I don't think he will once he realises how hard it is to be parents at this age, my friends agree too,they say he will leave me, and I just don't know what to do. I'm scared ,what should I do with my boyfriend?how should I tell my mom? And does anyone know why the bleeding happened?
Someone please help!

unluckynut
Aug 8, 2010, 02:29 AM
I feel bad you, 15 is not a good age to have kids, sometimes 2's not either, anyway enough of that. Yes you should tell your mom, and you should that a pregnancy test too, if you are pregnant you can still bleed some but it shouldn't be a regular period. I'm 50, but I know what you are going through, pregnancy is not an easy thing to do. Many medical things can happen that are very serious. I'm not trying to scare you but it's not as easy as you would think. Please take care of yourself. Go see a doctor, or planned parenthood. They an help you too. Tell your mom. If your not pregnant go on the pill, and always, always make him use a condom. There are too many STDs out there that can change your life forever. This is the same stuff I told my own son when he was 15. Good Luck! Take care of yourself, if you don't know one else will. Hugs!

redhed35
Aug 8, 2010, 04:30 AM
First of all you need to find out if your pregnant of not.

Next step,tell your mother.

Depending on the results from the test,you either one have some decisions to make or two its been a big scare and your not going to engage in sexually activity again until your older and can handle the Consequences.

lickemlolly
Aug 8, 2010, 05:46 AM
I agree... you don't even know for sure that you are pregnant... and you need to just tell your mother.. she will probably be upset but that's a consequence you accepted when you decided to have unprotected sex.. you are young and if you are pregnant you need proper prenatal care as soon as possible so you develop a healthy baby if you are pregnant..

Fr_Chuck
Aug 8, 2010, 07:59 AM
Yes, the stress, and other factors can get your period off. So the first thing you need to do is get a pregnancy test and find out if you are.

Then if you are, you ( or you and boyfriend) needs to tell your parents ( and then his parents)

Also depending on his age, since you had sex at 14 there could even be legal issues for boyfriend.

If you are not, then you learned a lesson about unprotected sex. *** also even protected sex is not 100 percent safe.

If you are, they will be mad to start, but plans for the child will have to be made.