What is the love process?
Once a guy said I am the only one who he wants in his life, and want to meet me soon,yesterday I messged him on line but he didn't respond... I feel very worried about this. Does he tell lie?
U know even he is on line everyday, but just messages me per month. Seems it has a chating period, what's wrong? He said he would come to my place to meet me if I got holidays. He said he should wait. And he said he felt so romantic and pasionate just by thinking of me... he told he want to be with me...
But what s wrong... I am still preparing for that day,.
What can I do? Wats in his mind? Should I bury it then move on?

Only he knows what's on his mind.

Why not talk to him about it? The fact is, if the two of you haven't even met, how can he love you? He doesn't even know you.

How long have you been in contact with him?
This is someone you meet online I assume , and that is all the contact you have had.
No real meeting.
It does not sound by his actions that he is serious.
If you were really the only one he wanted in his life , I think he would be in contact more than you describe.

Keep looking , I think you can find better candidates for a relationship.

What is his age? Yours? It helps to understand the context.

Please... no more posts until the OP'er answers this.

How long have you been in contact with him?
This is someone you meet online I assume , and that is all the contact you have had.
No real meeting.
It does not sound by his actions that he is serious.
If you were really the only one he wanted in his life , I think he would be in contact more than you describe.

Keep looking , I think you can find better candidates for a relationship.

From May till now


what is his age? yours? it helps to understand the context.

please... no more posts until the OP'er answers this.

Me 26 that person 28

What is "troubled mind " in your opinion?
Is it mad? Disorderred?
What is it when people in this situation?

I wouldn't have a lot of faith and trust in a online person who you know nothing about. Especially when his words are big, and his actions are ZERO.


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What is "troubled mind " in your opinion?
Is it mad? Disorderred?
What is it when people in this situation?



It means they have problems, or issues, and it could be anything, that bothers them.

Their problem could range from a broken fingernail, to being absolutely bonkers.

Oh, so be spicific, what about this means in a relationship...

It means something is either lacking or wrong with the relationship and your role in it, it can mean you have a mental disorder but that would usually be in general if its connected to a relationship and only a relationship it would I assume mean somethings not right in that relationship.

Seek professional help to know for certain...


Have to spread rep.

I agree with others you haven't met him and don't appear to have any firm arrangements made with him to meet, he's probably an online love rat.

I wouldn't have a lot of faith and trust in a online person who you know nothing about. Especially when his words are big, and his actions are ZERO.


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Why?

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why?

Because you've no real idea of who or what this person is he gives you empty promises and is playing with your emotions.

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why?

There could many different reasons. 99.99% of them involve you losing something.
Dignity, money, possessions, and your time, or your life.

Be VERY careful of who you allow to contact you online, remember Ted Bundy was a smooth talking, clean cut law student.

OK I see.

Are you speaking of yourself or someone else?

What's troubling?

Are you speaking of yourself or someone else?

Yea... myself. I faced same confused problems when I am about to be in a relationship every time. The result wasn't good. Which means we didn't get together finally. And of course, I got a lot of hearbreaks, hurts and pains from that.
I also confused, try to find out why? Wats wrong?:confused:
Seems its hard to find a one to get together..

I found myself always been hurt when I try to start a relationship with someone.
I am keeping looking the right one, just look back , every history with man, was full of hurts, pains and failures. So many problems and even not get together finally. So I wasn't in a relationship actually, but why? Always fail before into a real relationship.
Wats the problem? Is it so hard to get a proper one for me?
What can I do?

If you want specific answers, you need to give specific information.

Its not enough to open a third thread still saying "why doesnt it work out?"

Need some details. History.

What are the reoccuring problems? What do you struggle with? What do you think the problems are? Why?

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Don't rush.

Please stop opening new threads with the same idea...

Let your original thread develop. It takes time. Be patient.

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if you want specific answers, you need to give specific information.

its not enough to open a third thread still saying "why doesnt it work out?"

need some details. history.

what are the reoccuring problems? what do you struggle with? what do you think the problems are? why?
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What I am trying to say, is that I am feeling so sad about what I was going through. All the emotion experiences.
I was refused by the first person I love in my life several years ago which made me totally heart broken and I almost spent 1 year to recover.
Then the next one broken after 5 months. The third one, the most complex one, who already got married but he didn't tell me that, I was in such an unforgettable pain, its risky, confused and finally I got rid of him after 2 years back, I chose to leave. You know being that hard time, how painful it was. I suffered huge spirit pressure.
Then now, things is not going the same as I always think what it is. When I try to contact some one I like, always got confused. Maybe it can be called "unacceptable",but I am wondering to know why it always like this?
Why it only happened to me. Why is it so hard for me to find a right one ?being in a relationship is tooo hard? I am still at the outside of the door.
I really want to change this which I am not willing to happened in the next future life, but I really don't know how to do. Where can I find that rite one? I am kind of losing the confidence.

Sometimes we want something so bad, we look in the wrong places for them. We have such high hopes, and when it fails, we are devastated. It happens to All of us its just some handle the disappointment better than others, simply because they don't take the hurt, pain, and misery, so personally, and are quick to take back, and move forward with their lives, and learn from the experience.

I strongly suggest that you stop looking for love and build a life that you enjoy, with people and activities that make you happy about yourself, and what you're doing, so you can share something good with others. Then someone will find you and want to share their happiness with you.

Don't be in such a hurry, let things develop at a natural pace, while you keep your heart warm, protected, and happy, until you know they will deserve it, and can take care of it.

There are no guarantees in life, just many tests, trials, and experiences.