so there is this guy, we grew up together. He has liked me since I could walk and talk. Well I got adopted and didn't get to see him again... we just got reunited 10 years later. He liked me and told me he did he kept asking do you find me attractive would you date me, but at the time I had a boyfriend so I didn't like him. But as time progressed I started liking him a lot!

well he texted me like all the time and we really didn't talk because I ignored him. Well when I came back I had broken up with my boyfriend and started liking him, he spontaniously bought me stuff he tricked me into telling him what I liked and he went out and got it for me. He works at the fair so he gets free food. Well one day/night he held my hand. He cuddled with me and then he kissed me. He pillow fighted with me, and bought me random stuff. Well now I realllllly like him. And a couple of days ago we were talking about the movie takers with Ti and Chris Brown and he was all liike lets go see it together and I was like yeah lets.

now by this time he definitely knows I like him because my step dad told him. And he had told me I liked him, but this was wayy back when we first started talking and I had just came out about liking him. Well I got busy and stopped texting him and he stopped texting me, well yesterday I texted him and was like hey haven't talked to you in a while how have you been, well he didn't answer me so I thought he was working, well I had a random question for him and asked and he answered right away so then again I was like so how are you and he once again never answered me. Well I texted back I can see you are busy just text me later he was like OK.

I mean in the same day/night that he held my hand bought me stuff, cuddled with me and kisses me he was in with my mom and she thanked him for something and he made the comment its okay you are fam and she was like well I better be I have been changing your diapers since you were born and he was like yeah and I'm also going to be dating your daughter! I mean he actually had plans to date me.. then like we actually were flirting every time I saw him he would flirt like there was no tomorrow well he stopped texting me for some reason... and we still talked just not much.

well 2 weeks ago I noticed that he didn't text me as much and I was kind of busy so I didn't text him well like I said above I texted him and was like hey haven't talked to you in a while how are you doing because the night before he has asked about me he asked how I was doing and the next time I would be over and such... well like I said I got ignored and blah blah blah well I got REALLY paranoid and stupidly I asked him I was wondering if you still liked me and he was like I don't know I have a lot of **** I need to take care of first. I don't even know what to think of that!! I mean I don't want to waste my time liking him if he doesn't like me anymore. Although I don't know what I did wrong we were fine then all of a sudden he was just BOOM crashed on me.

I mean I don't know what I did and I really wantt this to work out so can someone tell me if I did something wrong

well the question I should ask is should I try texting him again, should I get over him, or should I keep trying. Because I really don't want this to end he is the best man I've known him all my life! And he has treated me better then anyone I have ever known and made me soooooooo happy I can't go a day with out thinking about him, like legit he is the last thing I think about before I go to bed and the first thing I think about when I wake in the morning! And I really don't want this to end so should I keep trying or just give up? And should I try texting him again and talking to him what should I say because I would really like to know if I did something wrong or if he really doesn't like me anymore for some reason. I mean maybe he was having a bad day why would he ignore me///

and he thinks I beautiful! He says all the time that he thinks I'm pretty I mean he was singing a song about me being pretty and beautiful so can he does he still like me? Is this "**** that he has to deal with" real? I mean I want to text him but I'm afraid he will ignore me. So can anyone answer me?

HELP ME PLEASE :confused: :eek: :(

Back up a bit and give him some room to handle the stuff he has on his mind. Have fun doing other things for a while. Don't be pushy, and I doubt you have done anything wrong. Maybe he is just grounded, or something, and doesn't want to tell you.

He probably just needs space. Don't push this. Let him make the next move.

Don't give up, but give him a few days and text him back and say "Hey how's it going?" and just build a friendly relationship again it'll take time but just don't rush, slowly go higher into a strong relation ship... Don't let him rush you though, that wouldn't be fair. (:

God bless.

Stay NC.