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Intuitive
Aug 5, 2010, 06:18 AM
Me and my boyfriend have been friends with a couple for a long time. He has fallen out with them but I haven't. It makes me feel really uncomfortable he said I should just say its nothing to do with me if I they ask me about him, but I hate any feelings of worry or confrontation make me feel sick. I like them but there are certain things about them I don't. I get mad thinking about her annoying my boyfriend but enjoy her company and his a little. Should I just not talk about it? I think I may be gutted more than anything.

talaniman
Aug 5, 2010, 10:17 AM
If he has said its him, not you, then why trip about it. Maybe not deal with them as much, or let the dust settle with other activities. But don't make his issues yours, since he told you not to. Leave it between them.

Sometimes its best to deal with your feelings, and keep them out of a situation with others.

You can't control any one but yourself, and since its not a big deal as to what you do, then don't make it one??

Are you defending your partner? Why, when he doesn't want you too?

Intuitive
Aug 8, 2010, 05:00 AM
Thank you so much you hit the nail on the head so to speak! Thank you, helped a lot.