Hi,
I'm 12 years old and I really like this boy that is 14, I talk to him quite a lot over text messages and Facebook and more. I really like him but he doesn't like me back. We normally talk about sex and things we would do, is his normal ? He told me that if we ever did go out that it would look bad on both of us ; more him because he's the oldest ? I dream about him every night and I can't get over him, I've never talked to him face to face, I only know him because his my mates cusion. My best friend really likes him aswel but she doesn't talk to him as much as I do, I feel that he is the right one but he feels like it would work between us. He says I'm attractive, do you think he fancies me ?
HELP PLEASE!!

Well for a start you are 12 yrs old and I don't think sex should be a topic you consider for a few years yet, well a few years difference at your age is a lot worse than when you are older.

Can I ask how did you get his number and email if you have never met him?

All I can say is not to worrie about long term relationships at your age it is your time to explore the world and meet people not get tied down, and with him being the one you never know he might be but if he is he will still be the one when you are older and wiser.

I hope this helps.

Phoenix.

Youre 12 years old barely out of long socks, with the mind of a young adult and the body of a school girl in pigtails, you are far too young to be discussing sex with anyone let alone a boy you havent met, how do you know hes who he says he is if you havent met he could be some 40plus year old lecher, please stop these chats and whatever else, and stay young for a few more years, youll possibly live till youre 90, so if youre 12 now youve got 78 years within which to get settled down married kids, husbands and all of that, Enjoy your youth. Then think about boys.Sex isnt for school girls to be delving into, youve 4 years at least for that. No I dont think he cares, if he did he would want to meet you and go about it in a more age related way, Youre both underage, thats if he is who he claimes he is..

Leave the boys alone and the sex talk. You are way to young.