My friend sent me a picture of his penis and now I feel really weird, what do I do now? I want to talk to him about it but I feel really insecure and think that he's going to think I'm gay.

First,why would he send something like that?Is this some new guy thing?A prank?Or is there something that makes him think you might be gay?(meaning interested in him)

If the answer is no to the gay question,talking to him about this would be the right thing to do for the reason that it has upset you.

No one has the right to offend another in this way,sexual harassment,weather it is from the opposite sex or the same sex is still harassment.

Like you said in your other post,tell them how you feel.(yes,we do look around to see what people write before we make certain comments)

If you aren't sure his intentions,make yours as clear as you can.. you either are OK with the gay factor and are afraid you'll be judged for it,or you aren't OK with the gay factor and you need to tell him so.

Since you posted this in the Teens forum I assume you both are teenagers. Therefore, I would approach it like this. Tell your friend that its really not cool to send pics like that. That he could get in trouble for sending child porn and other issues. Tell him you don't want him to get in trouble which is why you are warning him about it.

I think, this tells him you aren't interested but makes it like you are concerned about him getting in trouble.

It's most likely a prank and it may not even be his. Someone may have taken his phone, took a pic, and sent out to the last few people he texted. This happens all the time in locker rooms and bars when people forget their cell phones.

Either way get in his face about it and tell him it was messed up.

Me: jerrryy I got a picture of you!
Jerry; what picture?
Me: from angelica you **** was in the sink
Jerry; that wasn't me I swear on everything do you want me to send you a picture so you can tell if it's the same no homo I use mine do I don't give a ****
Me; ummmm, sure but only to see if it resembles the pick I got from angelica
Me after he sent it: umm that's not the same as angelicas
Jerry; told you you have to back me up with that ****, now delete it I feel ****ing gay: me; hahah okay and I deleted it already
Jerrry; I'm almost 7 mother****er
Me; that's cool idc how big you are,
The next day.. me; jerrry I feele reallly weird from yesterday
Jerry; have you ever herd of bro conduct" we dont speak of this again"
Me; no I haven't but all right.





This was me and my friends conversation when it happened,
He's jerry and I'm me

So what is it that has you upset?The fact that he sent you a pic of himself or that you feel something else besides? I don't know.. disgust?

It just feels weird, I'm not gay, but I just can't ever look at him the same its hard to explain,

Not necessary, it's (to me) a normal reaction..

I am not one to stare at guys parts,it just isn't something I am comfortable with.But to each their own.

Now that I understand your feelings towards this,perhaps there are a few things you can do to get past this.

One would be to tell him, "No,I don't follow that 'bro conduct' and I am telling you that it was wrong.Don't do it again!"

Even the simplest person can understand that.He crossed a line with you and you don't want it to happen again.It was unacceptable and he should think twice about this type of action in the future, you might have sent that pic all over the net, how would he feel then? (YouTube would have had a blast with it if you posted it on pages where EVERYONE he hangs with saw it)

Think that would makes things clear enough.You aren't into that type of behavior.You don't want to be put in that situation ever again.

IDK, does that make sense?

So you got a picture from Angelica claiming it was your friends penis, you told your friend about the picture, he said it wasn't him and he could prove it by sending you a picture of his penis. You said sure, send it. He did. Now you both feel uncomfortable about it.

Seems to me that the one to discuss this with is Angelica, the person that sent the original pictures, claiming it was your friend.

This is distribution of child porn, and illegal. There are bigger issues than what's going on with you and your friend.

So you got a picture from Angelica claiming it was your friends penis, you told your friend about the picture, he said it wasn't him and he could prove it by sending you a picture of his penis. You said sure, send it. He did. Now you both feel uncomfortable about it.

Seems to me that the one to discuss this with is Angelica, the person that sent the original pictures, claiming it was your friend.

This is distribution of child porn, and illegal. There are bigger issues than what's going on with you and your friend.


And that pretty much sums it all up - cuts right to the chase.

Never ask a question if you aren't prepared for the answer.

And, yes, there are bigger issues, possibly legal, on the horizon.

it just feels weird, im not gay, but i just can't ever look at him the same its hard to explain,
Declare no homo.

Dude, so what, you saw your buddy's pecker. You have one too, it's the human body, nothing more. It doesn't make you gay. Ya, I can see how it's a little weird but you'll get over it and probably end up laughing about it later.

I don't know I just wished this never happened

I don't know what to say to jerry, without sounding weird about the situation, what should I say to him

I thought you said you already talked to Jerry about it and he gave you that "bro conduct" line.

I'd just keep it under wraps and move on and forget about it.

Its hard to forget