Silver Lining
Aug 2, 2010, 03:02 AM
Hi, I have been married for 4 years now,, we have a baby girl who is 7 months old...
My hubby is a nice guy,, very caring,, I know he loves me a lot,, but he doesn't express it much,, I feel bad, he hardly gives me time,, this is not a change, this has been him since the beginning,
I see other couples going out, having fun,, n I feel bad that I don and get the same, we don't even celebrate our anniversary properly.. his way of celebration is going out for dinner... that's it,,
I see my bro giving flowers to his wife on her b'day., on anniversaries, or sometimes without a reason,, it hurts me that my hubby doesn't do the same,, I have never been surprised by him,, ever, the only surprise I got was when he told his parents about me, apart from that, no other surprise, it has been 5+ years since we met...
I spend the whole day caring for the baby and doing the household chores,, I hardly get time to relax, no TV, no outing, no entertainment of any sort,, I feel frustrated,
All I expect is occasional flowers or some small surprises,, which will boost me a little,
What do I do,, I tried telling him several times, in fact once I told him directly as to how I feel,, no use,
I feel so bad that sometimes I feel like running away from everything,
What do I do..
My hubby is a nice guy,, very caring,, I know he loves me a lot,, but he doesn't express it much,, I feel bad, he hardly gives me time,, this is not a change, this has been him since the beginning,
I see other couples going out, having fun,, n I feel bad that I don and get the same, we don't even celebrate our anniversary properly.. his way of celebration is going out for dinner... that's it,,
I see my bro giving flowers to his wife on her b'day., on anniversaries, or sometimes without a reason,, it hurts me that my hubby doesn't do the same,, I have never been surprised by him,, ever, the only surprise I got was when he told his parents about me, apart from that, no other surprise, it has been 5+ years since we met...
I spend the whole day caring for the baby and doing the household chores,, I hardly get time to relax, no TV, no outing, no entertainment of any sort,, I feel frustrated,
All I expect is occasional flowers or some small surprises,, which will boost me a little,
What do I do,, I tried telling him several times, in fact once I told him directly as to how I feel,, no use,
I feel so bad that sometimes I feel like running away from everything,
What do I do..