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thenameskayla
Aug 1, 2010, 07:44 PM
I have this friend I have known him sense I was like 6 or 7. And we use to hate each other. But now he's saying he hates being single and he wants a girlfriend. Me and him are like brother and sister now. But I really like him I always have likes him. But I'm afraid to tell him how I feel because I think if he knew he would be creeped out. Hes a nice guy, really cute, smart, and funny. But nobody else likes him. I already know of one girl he likes but I don't know if he likes me too. Helpp.

Clough
Aug 2, 2010, 01:48 AM
Hi, thenameskayla!

How old are both you and he now? If you might not want to reveal the ages, would you let us know the grade that each of you are in, please?

Thanks!

cdupre70301
Aug 4, 2010, 01:37 PM
If you have a good guy friend don't ruin your friendship. Never date your best guy friend. It can ruin everything you ever had with each other. Maybe later on in life it will happen, but it is way to soon for that. Take it from someone who had many male friends.

positiveparent
Aug 7, 2010, 11:04 AM
I have several male friends and Ive always found male friends more compatible with myself I do have girl friends but most are male, and I have in the past looked at one or two of them in a more relationship or bed buddy way, and many years ago I crossed the line with one of them, and I lived to regret that action within months, not only did we find we werent compatible as lovers we also felt uncomfortable in each others company as friends, and weve drifted apart to the extent we never see each other now, and yet, before we crossed that line we were really good friends, but it changed us, and I lost an otherwise good friend.

So keep him as a friend, because anything more could be the ruination of that friendship, and its really not worth it.

Kitkat22
Aug 7, 2010, 11:16 AM
We need to know how old you are?