There is this girl I really like she was in this club with me and it went on an out of town field trip for 3 days. On the second day we hung out the whole day then that night while a dance was going on in the lower level of the hotel she felt dizzy and sick so I took her to her room we talked about real personal information then I went to the restroom to freshen up I found her lying down on the floor she had apparently passed out I woke her up and gave her some water she felt a lot better then I gave her a french kiss. Then we had a one night stand the next morning she came to my hotel room to have another session when my roommates caught us. I told her I loved her and she agreed know I really really really won't to date her but she has a boyfriend and I have a girlfriend know I really love my girlfriend but every time I say I love only her there is this feeling and the memories of the field trip. I can't tell if she really loves me she said she does but know she hates it when I bring up the subject or says she doesn't remember any help out there

Hello,

How old are you two?

How long have you known her?

How can you be in love with two people at the same time?

You gave a French kiss to a sick, dizzy girl who had passed out? Then you had a one-night stand with her?? Ewwwww. And she doesn't remember this? Was this really a rape, taking advantage of a very vulnerable person?

Leave her alone. Be glad she didn't report this to the police.

... so let me get this straight.

You have a girlfriend.
She has a boyfriend.

And both of you cheated on one another.

And you want advice on how to... what, get her to like you so you can leave your current girlfriend?

... do you see the problem with this?

I'd go with what Wondergirl said, leave both of them alone... but chances are, you won't, so do this instead.

Have the balls and the courage to at least tell your girlfriend you cheated, and then leave her.

You want advice how to keep cheating on your g/f while the chick you cheated with wants yo forget the whole thing?

Thats not love for your g/f, that's lying, cheating, and selfish deceit.

Thats not love for the girl,, that's taking advantage of the situation to satisfy your lust

Thats not love for yourself, Its immature, and irresponsible, because now you are a lying, cheating, selfish b@stard, who doesn't have a clue about young manhood, and can't be trusted by those that may care about you.

Leave the girl alone, and get your act together, and be a better person, or stay the dog you are, and keep your fleas.

On top of that, you got played by a better player, used, and cast aside, and it won't be long before some of her friends lets your g/f know what a sorry excuse for a b/f you are, and then she will kick you to the curb.

You don't mess around with somebody else's girlfriend.

You better be sure you don't lose the girlfriend you have.

If you did date rape this girl, I hope you go to jail

First of all it was consent she actully had it with me since I was a virgin and I broke up with my current girlfriend after that had happened aparently people aren't allowed to have a crush on a girl for over 5 years then when she finally acknowledges you exist you can not enjoy it I was wanting help on how to get her to date me not be a player

she finally acknowledges u exist u can not enjoy it i was wanting help on how to get her to date me not be a player
SHE would be the player if she dates you. YOU would be a rebound. Do you want that for a few minutes of "fun" (that won't last)?

Man the is so much hatred in this conversation. DUDE WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE if this many people say that you should not be with this girl you really need to back off and recollect your life I can tell you now that if you want to continue on this path it is not going to end well for you