imperatrice
Aug 1, 2010, 08:37 AM
Hi Guys,
here's my story...
1 year ago I met this randomn guy at the club. We chatted briefly and he asked for my number. I don't believe in dating guys I meet at the club so as usual, I gave him a fake number and shortly I left the club.
As I was walking towards the carpark, he ran after me and said that he was disappointed in me for giving him a fake number. He texted the fake number and realised I gave him a wrong no. I was alone and quite scared because he was quite confrontational, so I figured OK, I ll give him the no and after that I drove off.
We kept in touch through phone text and two weeks later, we met up on a double date ( I brought a friend along). Date went well I tink cause he asked me out again. But the day before the date he said he was sick and in the end we didn't manage to go on a second date.
We continued to keep in touch and now its almost a year. To be very honest, I am quite curious about this dude and I am open to getting to know him better. He cracks me up over msn and he's quite an interesting dude.
He was always saying he will ask me out when he's back from his overseas trip at work n etc but nothing came out of it. And I kind of gave up trying to see if we will ever meet each other again... as I highly doubt his sincerity.
1 week ago, he texted me asking me if I want to go take a filming course together. I told him I am not that keen on a filming course, maybe if its photography I will jump in. Then immediately he said he is interested too. So since he found out about the filming course and stuff I figured I should do my part also and I shortlisted two schools which we could join. He told me to let him know when he is back as he won't be in town and that's about 3 days later.
so after 3 days, I left a message on his msn showing him the shortlisted schools webpage. He didn't reply. So I left it as it is.
He's like a dude that's been hanging ard for quite sometime, he's been showing interest but somewhat hesitant in meeting me.
I don't know what I should do . I tot of moving on and cut him off my life completely.
Its like every time he will chat me up and stuff and says we should hang out soon... but it never happens.
Some background info about this dude: Hes 28, he has never had a girlfriend before, I did ask him why, and he said that he always find reason not to like someone and half way he will give up. That's what he told me.
I am interested in him but it seems like he's not that sincere in meeting up and getting to know me better in person... sigh. Buti do enjoy talking to him. What should I do? Don't suggest that I ask him out...
here's my story...
1 year ago I met this randomn guy at the club. We chatted briefly and he asked for my number. I don't believe in dating guys I meet at the club so as usual, I gave him a fake number and shortly I left the club.
As I was walking towards the carpark, he ran after me and said that he was disappointed in me for giving him a fake number. He texted the fake number and realised I gave him a wrong no. I was alone and quite scared because he was quite confrontational, so I figured OK, I ll give him the no and after that I drove off.
We kept in touch through phone text and two weeks later, we met up on a double date ( I brought a friend along). Date went well I tink cause he asked me out again. But the day before the date he said he was sick and in the end we didn't manage to go on a second date.
We continued to keep in touch and now its almost a year. To be very honest, I am quite curious about this dude and I am open to getting to know him better. He cracks me up over msn and he's quite an interesting dude.
He was always saying he will ask me out when he's back from his overseas trip at work n etc but nothing came out of it. And I kind of gave up trying to see if we will ever meet each other again... as I highly doubt his sincerity.
1 week ago, he texted me asking me if I want to go take a filming course together. I told him I am not that keen on a filming course, maybe if its photography I will jump in. Then immediately he said he is interested too. So since he found out about the filming course and stuff I figured I should do my part also and I shortlisted two schools which we could join. He told me to let him know when he is back as he won't be in town and that's about 3 days later.
so after 3 days, I left a message on his msn showing him the shortlisted schools webpage. He didn't reply. So I left it as it is.
He's like a dude that's been hanging ard for quite sometime, he's been showing interest but somewhat hesitant in meeting me.
I don't know what I should do . I tot of moving on and cut him off my life completely.
Its like every time he will chat me up and stuff and says we should hang out soon... but it never happens.
Some background info about this dude: Hes 28, he has never had a girlfriend before, I did ask him why, and he said that he always find reason not to like someone and half way he will give up. That's what he told me.
I am interested in him but it seems like he's not that sincere in meeting up and getting to know me better in person... sigh. Buti do enjoy talking to him. What should I do? Don't suggest that I ask him out...