forgottenagain
Jul 30, 2010, 04:27 PM
My ex has had joint custody of our children for 8 years. I don't drive, and he has mentally controlled them for years. My daughter (now 19) loves him but knows what he's like. Recently he has moved and I don't know the address. Can I do something about this without involving the children?
We have always had a temporary custody order. The reason for this being is I had a mental break down and when I was in the hospital he made arrangements to have them taken away from my care. It was only temporary but because I had no job skills (I was a stay at home mother) and could not find a decent job I figured it was best to leave them with him. Well now he won't even let me contact them except via Facebook. He controlled my life when I was married to him, but now he is controlling them. What can I do?
P.S. He now how a nice big house and a new family... I have a basement apartment, a good job but also pay child support.
We have always had a temporary custody order. The reason for this being is I had a mental break down and when I was in the hospital he made arrangements to have them taken away from my care. It was only temporary but because I had no job skills (I was a stay at home mother) and could not find a decent job I figured it was best to leave them with him. Well now he won't even let me contact them except via Facebook. He controlled my life when I was married to him, but now he is controlling them. What can I do?
P.S. He now how a nice big house and a new family... I have a basement apartment, a good job but also pay child support.