I've liked this guy for three years. We went out a long time ago and only for like a week. But we'd been friends for a long time before that. It didn't really work out between us because it was hard going from friends to dating so fast. But anyway after we went out he told all his friends and anyone that asked that he'd only gone out with me because someone dared him to. Not cool. So we just stopped talking after that. And I hadn't done anything I thought we were friends. :( so we haven't talked in ages but every time I see him my heart jumps and I act weird. I hate that I feel this way for him and I really don't know why I feel this way for him. I 've like other guys and dated other guys but still when I see him it's hard to describe. Am I pathetic? And how can I stop liking this jerk?

Are you sure he told friends?
Maybe you should ask him if he said this.

Are you sure he told friends?
Maybe you should ask him if he said this.

He's a loser. You are not! Let it go and the right guy will come along and he'll make this loser look like a pathetic jerk. In the meantime don't be in a hurry to grow up so fast. Enjoy being young and let this loser
Find someone just like him.:eek::)

Thanks :) that helps :)

You just keep telling yourself you're better off without all this upheaval in your life.

You are not pathetic. You asked for help, that shows you're pretty darn smart.

Your not pathetic, just feeling betrayed by a very immature person, trying to look good in front of his friends. He is the one that's pathetic, and not a very good friend.

Start being proud of who you are.
Change the things you don't like about yourself. By change I mean on the inside. Be glad you have a good heart and you're smart.