Crittaburger
Jul 25, 2010, 12:20 AM
Ok, so after 2 years of putting up with my stepmom I finally snapped and cussed her out. She claims to be all about "respect" when she's done nothing but disrespect me for as long as I've known her. She makes sexual comments about what she and my dad do in their "private time", and even though I tell her that not only is that gross, but its illegal, and id like her to stop, she keeps doing it. She's the only person who didn't say "Happy Birthday" to me (when I was with her all day), and she's the only one who didn't congratulate me when I graduated from high school. She makes me work for her (no pay) then whines that I don't have a job. She tells me not to worry about college, then when others are around she whines that I'm not looking for anything. I have a sister who has nothing to do with my dad because of her, and I'm starting to get in the same boat. She's driving my dad away from his kids, I haven't spoken to my dad in a month because of her. I honestly can't think of a single nice thing she's said to me. I would talk to my dad about it, but SHE answers his phone. I can't speak to my dad without going though her. I had a special fishing trip (for my birthday) with my dad, sister, and brother in law for this weekend. Everyone is going... except me. I've been looking forward to it all month. At my sisters wedding, she sat in the front aisle IN MY MOTHERS SEAT, and got up during the ceremony and walked around taking pictures. She's not even my stepmom yet, I just say that for lack of a better word.
I just want to know why is she trying to tear me away from my dad? What does she gain from all of this? I feel like its already too late to salvage any relationship with my dad.
I just want to know why is she trying to tear me away from my dad? What does she gain from all of this? I feel like its already too late to salvage any relationship with my dad.