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coolkita
Jul 24, 2010, 06:44 AM
Well we both are 18 years old . We are childhood friends . It was in 2007 that he proposed me.. I declined it at first place but yes after that I myself fell for him.. we were in a relation for about two years.. but eventually it didn't work . We couldn't develop "those" feelings between us.. we were still kiddos . Our relationship did not grow (according to my friends)..

It's been 7 months since we broke up.. we are still the best friends.. . but all this while I couldn't forget him.. I still love him . And he's committed..

Won't be able to forget him... Want him back again in my life.. I never showed him that I still have feelings for him.. he thinks I'm over him.. actually I made him believe this..

But I know I won't be able to forget him..
Please help me out.. help me getting him back...

Would do anything if it makes him fall for me again..

positiveparent
Jul 25, 2010, 12:32 PM
We can't help you get someone back, all we can do is offer advice on your current situation which at this time it appears you and he are finished, and have been for 7 months.

You could try talking to him, and letting him know how you feel, and if he then says he wants to get back with you go from there, but you need to know that whatever went wrong in the relationship to begin with must be fixed and dealt with by both of you before you have any hopes of making a success of the relationship.

This is assuming he will want to try again.

Also assuming you're willing to fix what went wrong to begin with, if you don't you'll be wasting both yours and his time.

First you need to talk to him about this.

Tubesox
Aug 4, 2010, 05:38 PM
Tell him your true feelings
Or
Just ask him " Is there any chance left of us having a relationship again?"

He will then see your still interested and if he declines you then you will have to move on he's not interested anymore. It's a chance you'll have to take but you need to let him know how you feel soon!

Good luck :)

lickemlolly
Aug 4, 2010, 05:48 PM
I agree with both here... plain and simple you should tell him how you feel.. may not work in your favor but if it doesn't then it simply wasn't meant to be and in time you will learn to move on.