Sarahstaken
Jul 20, 2010, 06:07 AM
I was recently in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. We were both very much in love.. I had never EVER gotten so much attention from anyone like this before especially a boyfriend. He told me he loved me all the time, loved to cook for me bring me out whenever he could spend a lot of time together, talked a lot about 'our' future.. holidays, marriage etc.
We never fought.. only a little tiff here and there and it would be sorted in a few minutes. He is in college (obviously has summer off) but has to re do a very important project to get his points to move up to his fourth year and has always been very dedicated, since the start of June he's also working two jobs to make ends meet for college expenses etc..
Literally out of the blue 5 days ago he called up to my house and broke up with me but gave me no reasons. What he said first was 'I love you, you're my best friend, your beautiful and have a great personality' I kept asking why and he just looked at me and kept saying 'Sorry' and ' You think this is easy for me? ' I was so upset I was roaring crying and also confused and very angry.. I told him to look me in the eye and tell me that he is not IN LOVE with me that I needed to hear that to move on and he couldn't, I asked him many times to do this and he said 'im not going to say that to you.'
I kept telling him to leave my house but he wouldn't and kept saying he didn't want to leave me like this. Out of anger and also humiliation I said that 'Once you leave there's no coming back' and he said he wanted me in his life as a friend and I said that's impossible as ill always want to be with him.
I was sooooooo upset, I ran into my room and he followed in and also followed me anywhere I went in the house. I threw all his DVDs on the bed and told him to take them and his xbox back. He told me to keep it I said 'NO TAKE IT!
He found out about 2 months back that to become what he wants to become in college he has to do an extra yr of college.. he was very annoyed about which I completely understood, but one of the first things he said to me was 'How its going to be even longer now before me and him can do all these things that we planned!' I was kind of shocked but happy at the fact that I was also included in the future and I am a very perceptive person.
I was always on the look out to see if he's happy with 'us' and I did not see any of this coming and the people closest to both of us are totally shocked about this! His parents are extremely close to my aunt and uncle and cousins and I've heard back that he told his dad ' I didn't want to do it, I'm just unsure about the future'.
He is 21 almost 22 and I am 22 almost 23. He did text me 2 days after the break up and just said in words what he said to me the day he broke up with me. That's he's been thinking that were not going to work and he's better off doing it now rather then in a year. I haven't replied because I have nothing to say to him now.. I wanted to give his DVDs to him didn't I? Time to see what life's like without me, and to think clearly. He used to ring me everyday for hours a lot of the time and text haven't always even though I seen him about 3 or 4 times a week.. I just don't understand this at all. Any advice or anything Id appreciate it.. especially from you guys! Thanks!!
We never fought.. only a little tiff here and there and it would be sorted in a few minutes. He is in college (obviously has summer off) but has to re do a very important project to get his points to move up to his fourth year and has always been very dedicated, since the start of June he's also working two jobs to make ends meet for college expenses etc..
Literally out of the blue 5 days ago he called up to my house and broke up with me but gave me no reasons. What he said first was 'I love you, you're my best friend, your beautiful and have a great personality' I kept asking why and he just looked at me and kept saying 'Sorry' and ' You think this is easy for me? ' I was so upset I was roaring crying and also confused and very angry.. I told him to look me in the eye and tell me that he is not IN LOVE with me that I needed to hear that to move on and he couldn't, I asked him many times to do this and he said 'im not going to say that to you.'
I kept telling him to leave my house but he wouldn't and kept saying he didn't want to leave me like this. Out of anger and also humiliation I said that 'Once you leave there's no coming back' and he said he wanted me in his life as a friend and I said that's impossible as ill always want to be with him.
I was sooooooo upset, I ran into my room and he followed in and also followed me anywhere I went in the house. I threw all his DVDs on the bed and told him to take them and his xbox back. He told me to keep it I said 'NO TAKE IT!
He found out about 2 months back that to become what he wants to become in college he has to do an extra yr of college.. he was very annoyed about which I completely understood, but one of the first things he said to me was 'How its going to be even longer now before me and him can do all these things that we planned!' I was kind of shocked but happy at the fact that I was also included in the future and I am a very perceptive person.
I was always on the look out to see if he's happy with 'us' and I did not see any of this coming and the people closest to both of us are totally shocked about this! His parents are extremely close to my aunt and uncle and cousins and I've heard back that he told his dad ' I didn't want to do it, I'm just unsure about the future'.
He is 21 almost 22 and I am 22 almost 23. He did text me 2 days after the break up and just said in words what he said to me the day he broke up with me. That's he's been thinking that were not going to work and he's better off doing it now rather then in a year. I haven't replied because I have nothing to say to him now.. I wanted to give his DVDs to him didn't I? Time to see what life's like without me, and to think clearly. He used to ring me everyday for hours a lot of the time and text haven't always even though I seen him about 3 or 4 times a week.. I just don't understand this at all. Any advice or anything Id appreciate it.. especially from you guys! Thanks!!