riya800
Jul 17, 2010, 05:55 AM
Hi,
I am Riyaz,24 years old guy from India. I am working in an IT firm and I have very serious question about my situation.
First I will let you know about my character so that you can judge what happened to me...
I am a kind of shy person and I don't talk to girls especially unless or until it is very much necessary.
Moreover I am a kind of weak hearted person and I recently feel like having crush with my colleague.
A girl who has been with my team during training got more close during working as we both work on same area.
When she was not with my working area she has been with me for a month but I never felt anything for her.She looks pretty and many guys fall for her.But at that time I never fell for her.
But once she started working with me I started to see her childish smiles and talks and very much impressed. But she started calling me as brother.
I didn't take it seriously but I started feeling pain of separation when she is not around.I started missing her and when she moves off sometimes without speaking to me I feel like dying until I see her messages or call.
She calls me brother but she looks like being interested with me.. she laughs and giggles at my silly jokes and she comes and sits near me without any reason and she talks to me in a very friendly manner.She is a kind of jovial and easy going girl and she speaks to all.
May be I would have mistaken her.But the thing is I am in utter confusion am I having crush with that girl?Who calls me brother?
I am feeling very bad about this.I can act as her brother but what can I do to my inner feelings.
Now at this situation I can never approach her and I can't decide who is she to me??
Please help me out I am getting distracted from my normal life and getting sick and lagging in my job also.This has affected me a lot and all this are happening only from past 2 months so I want to overcome this in initial stage itself.
Please tell what can I do?I am ready to meet mental physician also if required.If u could help me I will be happy and pray for you.
Thanks and Regards,
Riyaz
I am Riyaz,24 years old guy from India. I am working in an IT firm and I have very serious question about my situation.
First I will let you know about my character so that you can judge what happened to me...
I am a kind of shy person and I don't talk to girls especially unless or until it is very much necessary.
Moreover I am a kind of weak hearted person and I recently feel like having crush with my colleague.
A girl who has been with my team during training got more close during working as we both work on same area.
When she was not with my working area she has been with me for a month but I never felt anything for her.She looks pretty and many guys fall for her.But at that time I never fell for her.
But once she started working with me I started to see her childish smiles and talks and very much impressed. But she started calling me as brother.
I didn't take it seriously but I started feeling pain of separation when she is not around.I started missing her and when she moves off sometimes without speaking to me I feel like dying until I see her messages or call.
She calls me brother but she looks like being interested with me.. she laughs and giggles at my silly jokes and she comes and sits near me without any reason and she talks to me in a very friendly manner.She is a kind of jovial and easy going girl and she speaks to all.
May be I would have mistaken her.But the thing is I am in utter confusion am I having crush with that girl?Who calls me brother?
I am feeling very bad about this.I can act as her brother but what can I do to my inner feelings.
Now at this situation I can never approach her and I can't decide who is she to me??
Please help me out I am getting distracted from my normal life and getting sick and lagging in my job also.This has affected me a lot and all this are happening only from past 2 months so I want to overcome this in initial stage itself.
Please tell what can I do?I am ready to meet mental physician also if required.If u could help me I will be happy and pray for you.
Thanks and Regards,
Riyaz