louise23
Jul 14, 2010, 05:35 PM
Hi since been in my new relationship for almost a year, I feel I have completely changed who I am, I sometimes feel like a shell of my former self, for instance, I used to smoke pot but gave up within a month and don't ever regret that and over the last 2 months I have giving up cigs to which is definitely a good thing but I was always happy with the way my life was I worked hard all week and had my ways to chill out and relax but my boyfriend didn't like it so I gave up that bad stuff and have been really grateful for it.
Since decembe we have only spent 2 nights apart and both of them were on the back of an arguement/night break up, we worked through a lot in the beginning because my ex was a creep and stalked me, and he was good friends with his ex, who told him all the time she loved him and wanted him back, this really freaked me out and on occasion she went over to his house and the stayed up all night drinking, he said I had nothing to worry about but what she was saying to him I didn't get and he didn't want too loose her as a friend because they were together for almost 4yrs, and about 2 months after this he told me that she was pregnant and it might be hers, and the day before we got decided to start seeing each other officially he sleept with her, been and delt with all this child not his and we goe back on track and had been great, as we still both lived at home and never really had any privacy we decided to get place of our own, which was amazing because I know he's the one.
~A few weeks before we moved in I have began to get moody, tired and easliy emotional I took no notice just nerves about what we were doing, so when we got here it felt amazing but the moods hadn't gone away, I done most of everything, all the cooking, clothes washing, sweeping and now I do everything, but 4 weeks after we moved in I suffered a miscarraige, it really tore me apart(that was three weeks ago) and am stll going through it, I get snappy, jump down he neck at the simplist of things, fly off the handle and really treat him kind of bad, on top of all this I'm having problems with my younger brothers and dad, they stole tings off me and dad done nothing about it, I just don't know who I am or where to turn or what I'm doing, I am 40 minutes away from everything I know, don't drive, don't talk to my best friend anymore because my boyfriend doesn't like her, I never have time to myself and am afriad if I ask for sme that he will tink that he's done something wrong which is definfately not the case. Since I don't tlk to my best friend anymore and haven't for almost 7months I thought I'd drop her a mail and say sorry for letting his get between us but she hasn't got back and I wouldn't blame her. I just feel so alone at times and wonder if I have made the right decision and everyone I know lives between 40 and 160km's from me and I'm not sure who I am anymore any advice anyone plzzzzzzzzzzzz
Since decembe we have only spent 2 nights apart and both of them were on the back of an arguement/night break up, we worked through a lot in the beginning because my ex was a creep and stalked me, and he was good friends with his ex, who told him all the time she loved him and wanted him back, this really freaked me out and on occasion she went over to his house and the stayed up all night drinking, he said I had nothing to worry about but what she was saying to him I didn't get and he didn't want too loose her as a friend because they were together for almost 4yrs, and about 2 months after this he told me that she was pregnant and it might be hers, and the day before we got decided to start seeing each other officially he sleept with her, been and delt with all this child not his and we goe back on track and had been great, as we still both lived at home and never really had any privacy we decided to get place of our own, which was amazing because I know he's the one.
~A few weeks before we moved in I have began to get moody, tired and easliy emotional I took no notice just nerves about what we were doing, so when we got here it felt amazing but the moods hadn't gone away, I done most of everything, all the cooking, clothes washing, sweeping and now I do everything, but 4 weeks after we moved in I suffered a miscarraige, it really tore me apart(that was three weeks ago) and am stll going through it, I get snappy, jump down he neck at the simplist of things, fly off the handle and really treat him kind of bad, on top of all this I'm having problems with my younger brothers and dad, they stole tings off me and dad done nothing about it, I just don't know who I am or where to turn or what I'm doing, I am 40 minutes away from everything I know, don't drive, don't talk to my best friend anymore because my boyfriend doesn't like her, I never have time to myself and am afriad if I ask for sme that he will tink that he's done something wrong which is definfately not the case. Since I don't tlk to my best friend anymore and haven't for almost 7months I thought I'd drop her a mail and say sorry for letting his get between us but she hasn't got back and I wouldn't blame her. I just feel so alone at times and wonder if I have made the right decision and everyone I know lives between 40 and 160km's from me and I'm not sure who I am anymore any advice anyone plzzzzzzzzzzzz