OK so I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months now and we've been through so much a lot of fights, but we've learned to look past them every time, he told me he cared a about me and would never hurt me, and all these things in the past but he's been acting REALLY weird I mean we made out for the first time a couple days ago and he's been ignoring me ever since the only coomunicational method he took was fb chatting me and calling me a prude and he knows it was the time of the month but he still called me it. I'm so confused on whether he used me or not can guys really say alll that to a girl 4 months of talking to and hanging out just to hook up and run away?? I don't know what to do at all all my friends tell me I can do a lot better but I know the real him I swear I do no one got to know him as best as I did I just need your guys help!! THANKS :)

Guys and people in general will use you. Four months is not long enough to know for sure what someone might do. It's OK to be friends but don't get physical. Keep your goods to yourself. Women are too free with their bodies these days. He is not making you feel secure with him so just be his friends. Keep your power. Don't let him call the shots.

Sounds to me like he was using you... just wanted to get in your pants. It's not normal for a man to "ignore" you just because he wanted sex the first time you made out and you didn't give it to him.

I'd dump that dawg quickly.