My ex has met someone else will not talk to me. Also makes sure I don't see him does he still love me?

If he loved you.. why would he see someone else?

He was with me all the time and we did everything together, but my family didn't like him

How can I tell if he still loves me when he is with someone and stays away from me and will not talk

There is no way to know unless he tells you. If he will not talk forget about him and move on.

Leave him alone and life your life and don't worry about him.

With time you will feel better and will find someone that will want to be with you because right now he doesn't want to be with you.

Kut...

I suggest you take the hint and leave him alone because he has put you behind him and moved on. That's a strong sign he doesn't love you.

He already with someone else and doesn't talk to you. I don't think he loves you anymore.

His actions and his words are saying the same thing. Listen to them.

He's your EX for a reason, just leave it that way.

He's already shown you that he isn't in love with you anymore by moving on and not talking to you.

Move on, heal, then find yourself someone new.

my ex turned up in another town when someone told him I was there with my boyfriend, he has not talked or seen me 4 around 6 months and he has a girlfriend so why was he there? I still love him do u think he loves me now or is he just doing my head in. we got on well when we were a couple and people in our town told lies about us both and went out of their way 2 split us up but we stayed together 4 two years but in the end the rumours got 2 much and we split up yet we have never had a row 2 do with us only about everyone else can u answer this and help me thank u x x x x x x

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dont understand what u r saying sorry

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Sorry please answer the question x

There are too many variables here.. Definitely recommend you post more information.. Whether he still loves you or not, something is not quite right about following you and your current boyfriend to another town.

Give us more of a background.

Sorry please answer the question x

If you have a boyfriend and he has a girfriend he may just want to make you jealous. He also may be stalking you.

Why would he be stalking me in another town, when I don't see him where I live 4 months ?

My question is...

Why are you with a boyfriend if you're still in love with your ex? How would you feel if you knew your boyfriend was still in love with his ex?

Also, you two broke up because "people tried to break you guys apart" and "the rumors got too much"... while I understand the stresses of this... a sign of a strong couple is when things get tough, they support one another and look out for one another, not let outside sources interfere with the relationship

Have you tried asking him this? Undoubtedly the best thing you could do would be to communicate this.. Whether there is a future or not, it might be beneficial to you, your ex, and your current relationship to initiate communication to better understand his intention.

If that fails, then report back here. However, wouldn't hard facts from his mouth benefit you more than speculation here?

hard facts.... Wouldn't hard facts.... Excuse my typing...

Don't confront him unless you have someone with you. He is your ex and you seem to have feelings for him. Don't go alone... OK?

Don't confront him unless you have someone with you. He is your ex and you seem to have feelings for him. Don't go alone...OK?

Oh, I would never recommend going to him... However, communication via email, or another form of limited communication could be beneficial here.

And do not get me wrong, I do not mean with the hopes of getting back together with this guy.. You need first and foremost to discover WHY he would stalk you to another town.

There are more important things to be concerned about here than if he is still interested in you..

Having a boyfriend is helping me get over my ex and he knows that I still have feelings I have told him. He said that has we had not split up long he understood.
I left a 17 year partner 4 my boyfriend and yes I found it hard and I think we could have handled it better but 2 years is a long time, when it was my family and friends, when his were lovely and kind

Oh, I would never recommend going to him... However, communication via email, or another form of limited communication could be beneficial here.

And do not get me wrong, I do not mean with the hopes of getting back together with this guy.. You need first and foremost to discover WHY he would stalk you to another town.

There are more important things to be concerned about here than if he is still interested in you..




Stalkers are not interested in the love, they are interested in the power.
Don't confront him alone and unless he calls you stay NC. It's over and you have moved on. Nevertheless if he ever wants to meet... arrange yourboyfriend to go with you in a public place.

If he text you or tries to contact you on Facebook.. block him.. He has someone else and so do you. Stay NC.

I seen him in a pub a few months ago with his girlfriend and he knows I go to the club so he stopped going. The night he saw me I didn't go as had a feeling he would go so I went home. The next day my mate told me that he turned up there with his girlfriend which she thought was strange as he had not been 4 months, WHEN I SAID I HAD SEEN HIM she said that is why he must have gone there, so in 6 months turned up in the club and in another town when I know he was told I was there. Why is he doing this when he knows I love him and this is doing my head in when I spend all of my time staying away from him also he never went in town and now been told he is always in asda which I live across the road from and when I was with him he never went in there strange don't u think??

This isn't strange at all. It's a silly immature game he is playing to show you he can have someone like you have someone to stoke your egos, at the expense of others.

They may be willing to put up with your crap, and his, but that doesn't make it right for either of you.

This isn't strange at all. Its a silly immature game he is playing to show you he can have someone like you have someone to stoke your egos, at the expense of others.

They may be willing to put up with your crap, and his, but that doesn't make it right for either of you.

This guy does not care about you, he's playing a game and maybe he just happened to be there and you are trying to read more in to this than there is.
The best and smartest thing you can do is move on and forget him. The situation is not going to change and it's not worth it.

It could have been coincidence, regardless of why he was there he was, people do end relationships and sometimes they do bump into one another when they're out, it doesn't mean you're being followed or if so perhaps its only in your own mind perhaps this is what you want to think it is. But its only so in your own mind. I think you're still hung up on him and would like to think he's following you.

If he is doing as you say, then ignore him or if you feel he's stalking you inform the police and have nothing whatsoever to do with him completely as of now, if your friends try talking about him change the subject.

Ignore him and maybe he'll stop.
I'm hoping you are not liking the attention?