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anonomys1990brap
Jul 10, 2010, 05:51 AM
Right I like this girl and I have been talking to her months now but about a fortnight ago she got a boyfriend. I told her how I felt before she went out with him and she just felt embarresed and was surprised. I don't really talk to at school much but at a festival last weekend we started speaking face to face and it wasn't awkward even though I had a few but I was still sober. She likes everything on my fb all my photos, status' and posts. Is this me being jealous and hoping she likes me or do you actually think she does?

redhed35
Jul 10, 2010, 05:55 AM
She knew how you felt and didn't feel the same way,she has a boyfriend now,so she's off limits.

That does not mean she does not like you,but only that she likes you as a friend,not a boyfriend.

adam_89
Jul 10, 2010, 05:59 AM
Yea, she is currently off limits until she is single again. Don't break the rules. If she becomes single again then try your luck then.

redhed35
Jul 10, 2010, 06:04 AM
I'm sure there are girls yo ufind attractive but would not go out with them,the same applies for girls.

She was nice about it,leave it at that,if she wanted to go out with you she had her chance,but chose someone else.

Best advice I can offer you is,is move on,and set your sights on someone available.

redhed35
Jul 10, 2010, 06:12 AM
So you lost the girl because of your friends,do they all have girlfriends?

So what did you learn?

If you want the girl,take a chance,your friends won't be laughing to hard when your walking hand in hand with a beautiful girl.

Take it easy on the drink so you can make better decisions.

You made a choice whether to ask her or not based on what your friends would say or do,they don't care now,but you do.

In future listen to your gut instead of your friends teasing.

positiveparent
Jul 10, 2010, 06:18 AM
She's taken all you can do now is move on and find a girl of your own.

redhed35
Jul 10, 2010, 06:21 AM
That's not your problem now,she has a boyfriend.

Your single,she's not,she may be the object of your affection,but she's not available.

Move on!

There are loads of girls out there,I know that you may have had your heart set on her,but you lost the girl,learn from it,and don't make the same mistake again.

talaniman
Jul 10, 2010, 06:53 AM
You made a friend, and that's as far as it goes, because she likes someone better. Stay friends, and if you can't respect the fact she has a boyfriend, then leave her alone until you can.

It would help if you actually pay more attention to the ones that are available closer to where your at.

anonomys1990brap
Jul 10, 2010, 08:36 AM
There might be many fish in the sea but I she's the only Nemo :(

talaniman
Jul 10, 2010, 08:47 AM
If you have the option of changing back to the old skin, which is at the very top of the page in a yellow band, then you can have a complete input to this thread.



anonomys1990brap : All the girls that I do know well don't want to ruin our friendship, I don't know if this is just because I am not good enough or what.
I don't know why you manage to get hooked up as a friend all the time, but don't let it bother you, just keep doing what your doing, and eventually you find a girl who wants what you want.

Another thing is getting to know a stranger well, is the ideal dating scenario, but just don't get carried away and latch on to them to quickly.

treptrip
Oct 20, 2010, 12:41 AM
that maybe true anonomys1990brap about the whole nemo thing but think this she might be the only nemo but she might be an omen too (nemo=omen backwards)